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Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

Support needed for facing my horribly abusive ex

582 replies

Pebbledashery · 16/06/2021 07:42

Here is my support thread.. Thank you everyone

OP posts:
ArabellaStrange · 16/06/2021 07:50

Having one of my own, who I would gladly remove from the world if I could, have a massive handhold from me.

bigbaggyeyes · 16/06/2021 07:54

Checking into the new thread op Thanks

Iwantcauliflowercheese · 16/06/2021 07:55

Thank you for the link. I'll be here supporting you.

Tereseta · 16/06/2021 07:55

Checking in to wish for you to have the right decision, good luck lovely Flowers

Loubiemoo · 16/06/2021 08:06

Are you back in court again today?

tensmum1964 · 16/06/2021 08:16

Checking in and wish you all the best for a good outcome for you and your daughter. X

FijiCavanaugh · 16/06/2021 08:20

Wishing you all the best OP. You and your DD deserve safety and peace.

frazzledasarock · 16/06/2021 08:23

I sincerely hope the judge makes the right and safe decision for you and your child.

I always find it shocking that social services can threaten to take away your child if your in an abusive relationship but when you leave that relationship that same abuser is awarded contact.

It’s such a messed up system.

I hope your ex never gets contact with your baby.

OrchestraOfWankery · 16/06/2021 08:27

Sending positive thoughts your way. Stay strong.

Ilovethewild · 16/06/2021 08:28

Still with you op, sending support your way.
What’s your plans for today 💐

fantastaballs · 16/06/2021 08:42

Checking in.

RandomMess · 16/06/2021 08:50

Thinking of you Thanks

Marauder94 · 16/06/2021 08:54

Here to support you, you're such a strong woman xx

CandyLeBonBon · 16/06/2021 08:57

Wishing you luck op Thanks

REP22 · 16/06/2021 09:07

Travelled here from the previous thread.

You are a strong and totally amazing woman Pebble. Any child would be so proud to have you as a mum.

Keep going. Really rooting for you. x

Imnotamagician · 16/06/2021 09:09

Thinking of you and hope all goes well for you today Flowers

jay55 · 16/06/2021 09:19

It's a new day, he isn't in it.
Hope you can relax and push it out your mind for at least some of the day.

Pebbledashery · 16/06/2021 09:21

Thanks everyone, going to ask mumsnet to take the other thread down in a mo.
It's unfortunately my birthday today, trying my best to have a normal day and not feel like rubbish, but I just keep thinking of being called a "woman scorned" and hoping the Judge didn't get taken in by that.

OP posts:
MidLifeResurgence74 · 16/06/2021 09:21

Watching you from afar and willing you on. Thinking of you a lot.

Whatamesssss · 16/06/2021 09:41

@Pebbledashery

Thanks everyone, going to ask mumsnet to take the other thread down in a mo. It's unfortunately my birthday today, trying my best to have a normal day and not feel like rubbish, but I just keep thinking of being called a "woman scorned" and hoping the Judge didn't get taken in by that.
You left him, how does that make you a Woman Scorned? The judge will have heard it all before, they are no fools. Hope you hear soon.

Hope you have a nice day today, Happy Birthday. Flowers & Cake

Sunbird24 · 16/06/2021 09:46

Happy birthday! If you can’t enjoy this one properly (and who could really?) then think about how much better the next one will be…
🎂🥂🍾🎈🎁🎉

AngeloMysterioso · 16/06/2021 09:53

Hope it goes well today OP 🤞🏼

Pleaseuseatissue · 16/06/2021 09:55

Haven’t read the previous thread but having accumulated my own fuckwit I am here for you too! Gin Flowers Smile

DentonsFringeArnottsWaistcoat · 16/06/2021 09:58

Just speed read your other thread. Blimey. Sending you good wishes and strength, oh, and Happy Birthday 🥂 🎈 🎂!!!

PanamaPattie · 16/06/2021 10:01

Woman scorned! That is utter rubbish everyone can see that - you had to move to another county. It’s never a “man scorned” is it. Sexist tripe.

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