Partner used to use escorts...

[iwanteggfriedricefuckingpronto]

Deal breaker for you or not....

Totally. He exploited women for his own gratification. Wouldn't bother seeing him again.

Deal breaker.

He’s already crossed that line so he would again.

Depend : how long ago ?.

Depends on a lot of things. Some men work and don't have time to meet women socially, and some men don't have social skills and some men see escorts in between relationships.
Why did he tell you ?

Deal breaker.

Would be for me, consent can't be bought imo.

Bleurgh, instant turn off for me.

Deal breaker

Depends on a whole host of things:

1. Where? Somewhere it's legal with protections for the girls in established brothels or in a UK bedsit with a drug addict desperate to get her next fix?
2. When? A couple of times a decade or so when on holiday with the lads or an established habit?
3. Who? A single professional who charges a lot for her services or a series of cheaply bought girls picked up on a street corner?
4. How? Was protection used? Has he had a clean bill of health?
5. Will he do it again? Does he regret it? Can he believably articulate why he wouldn't do it again? When was the last time he did it?

He believes consent can be bought. Deal breaker for me.

No ifs, no buts, if he exploited women (even if they’d been conditioned by life to think it was their choice and empowered to sell their body), it’s a deal breaker.

He fucked someone who didn’t want to fuck him. He has no morals.

Ugh.
Deal breaker here too.
It's miles out from what I'd expect from a bloke I'd be involved with.
I'm assuming escort here means sex worker and not a hired dinner date?

100% deal breaker.

Dealbreaker

Playing Devils Advocate here....are we actually saying this man should now be denied a relationship forever?

Yes deal breaker.

He’s a filthy pig. I can do better.

OP, weren’t these women supplied by his drug dealer?

Why is this monster still your partner?

In your last thread you vowed that you were finally done with him. He is a violent abuser who sexually assaults you. He had already started moving his things out of your house, and you and your daughters were moving out this month.

What happened?

And to answer your question: Previous use of escorts would absolutely be a dealbreaker.

I really hope he's not your partner? Isn't this your drug taking, abusive partner who harasses you and bought sex with women he picked from his drug dealer? Who was also arrested for assault, criminal damage and coersion against you?

You split up and kicked him out last month WHY is now your partner again? 😔 think of your child OP!

@Anordinarymum

Depends on a lot of things. Some men work and don't have time to meet women socially, and some men don't have social skills and some men see escorts in between relationships. Why did he tell you ?

And that give them an excuse to exploit women and see women as consumables ?

@RoseRedRoseBlue

Playing Devils Advocate here....are we actually saying this man should now be denied a relationship forever?

This man apparently doesn’t believe women are for relationship he believes that are vaginas to be purchased ... people are not owed relationship

Deal breaker

Of course it's a deal breaker.

Deal breaker, 100%

He paid women so he could put his penis inside them. Sad pathetic misogynist bastard.
Some of those women could have been forced into it...so he basically paid someone else to let him put his penis inside a non-consenting woman ugh

Absolute dealbreaker. I wouldn't be able to look at them in the same way, knowing that they had been a john.