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DP said a very strange thing tonight ?!

712 replies

Underpressure13 · 28/08/2020 20:55

DP has called by tonight to hang out for the evening with me and the kids .
When he came through the door the first thing he said was ‘ok so where are these sausage rolls to reheat ?’
Earlier today my mum who was caring for the kids whilst I worked, cooked some sausage rolls and left the remaining ones we didn’t eat in oven for me to reheat for DP and kids tonight.
There’s no way he’d have known of this as both myself , nor my mum have mentioned this to him today and he knew they were in there without being told or even looking . They hadn’t recently been cooked and place didn’t smell of them.
When I questioned him on how he knew, he just said ‘ oh, instinct I guess’ no further explanation Shock
Is it strange he said that? I can’t quite work this out !!

OP posts:
TroysMammy · 28/08/2020 21:18

Are sausage rolls the only thing your mother would cook?

SimonJT · 28/08/2020 21:18

Probably the smell, a colleague used to bring a sausage roll in for breakfast, the entire (large) office would smell very strongly of it for the rest of the day. Sausage rolls are normally cold and you heat them yourself I think?

ScarlettDarling · 28/08/2020 21:19

I think I'd be pressing him a bit further. His answer of knowing about the sausage rolls because of 'instinct' is a load of tripe-unless your mum often makes sausage rolls?
Dig a bit deeper.

KitchenRollHuggers · 28/08/2020 21:20

That is very very weird

Hirewiredays · 28/08/2020 21:20

He has a camera in the house.

Autumnsloth · 28/08/2020 21:22

I also think it depends on whether your mum often cooks them and leaves to reheat.

ShalomToYouJackie · 28/08/2020 21:23

V weird. As PP said, mentioning reheating them is v specific.

Lsquiggles · 28/08/2020 21:24

Sorry OP but he must be watching or listening to you, there's no other explanation

ButtonMoonLoon · 28/08/2020 21:25

My guess is camera or some other sort of recording advice in the house too.
Very creepy.

Newnamenewopenme · 28/08/2020 21:25

Have you mentioned them to anyone else by text? Maybe your phone is somehow linked and he has seen the message?

PatriciaPerch · 28/08/2020 21:26

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Scarydinosaurs · 28/08/2020 21:26

His response is the oddest thing. Instinct?? Did you laugh when he said that and then ask for an actual answer?

Time2change2 · 28/08/2020 21:27

Ask him more OP- instinct isn’t an answer! What doesn’t that even mean? Did he smell them? Why did he think there were any left to reheat. Gauge his reaction very carefully when he answers.
Watch out for these signs:
Blinking more or for longer
Licking lips
Shaking head side to side ever to slightly
Itching / scratching face
Red cheeks
These are all signs of lying. Ask some important questions and watch the answers!

WhoWouldHaveThoughtThat · 28/08/2020 21:27

Could the Sausage Fairy have told him?

calipo · 28/08/2020 21:29

My first thought was he's shagging your mum for some reason

AcrossthePond55 · 28/08/2020 21:31

From previous posts about him, you’ve had your suspicions about him accessing your phone/his phone secrecy

Is this true, OP?

If so, then I think you have your answer.

PlanDeRaccordement · 28/08/2020 21:32

Your mum probably mentioned it and then forgot she had.

Eckhart · 28/08/2020 21:33

Is he just winding you up? Was he actually in for a couple of minutes before you knew? Perhaps he overheard you saying 'We'll reheat those sausage rolls when Bob gets here.' whilst he was taking his shoes off in the hallway or something?

I hope his name isn't actually Bob, because then you'd really freak out.

I don't think it sounds sinister, unless there's a sinister feeling about him in other ways.

Notsurewhatsgoingon · 28/08/2020 21:34

**Could the Sausage Fairy have told him?

No she's furloughed apparently

Eckhart · 28/08/2020 21:34

Could the Sausage Fairy have told him

Spluttered my drink...

Nevercastaclout · 28/08/2020 21:35

He could have smelled them but to say 'to be reheated' is quite specific!

Can you log in to your WiFi router to check the devices using it? It will show phones, Alexa/Google smart speaker, TV, PC, iPad/tablets etc...if there's anything else then it's a watching/listening device.

Log in to the admin page - the code & password should be on the back on the router.

BooFuckingHoo2 · 28/08/2020 21:35

My ex used to do this, i.e. come out with things he could only have known by spying on me or reading my private messages. He used to constantly gaslight me by telling me I had actually told him whatever he’d come out with. He hadn’t, I caught him going through my phone and found a hidden camera.

I’m not saying this is the case her, but proceed with caution.

ravenmum · 28/08/2020 21:38

I hope his name isn't actually Bob, because then you'd really freak out.
Please let it be Bob! :)

lifesalongsong · 28/08/2020 21:38

You need to-do a test, talk about or do something really random in your kitchen and see if it comes up in conversation.

Time2change2 · 28/08/2020 21:38

What phone do you have OP
You need to read this and check your phone
www.techuntold.com/remove-mspy-from-phone/

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