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Been together a couple months, only had sex recently. He has a small penis. I've slept with quite a few men over the years and none have been as small as this one. I really like him, we just click, he's so kind thoughtful literally everything I want in a man. I do fancy him, I do want to have sex with him but it's difficult, I can't feel it when it's in!! He seems to enjoy it but I don't. He's good with everything else, can please me in other ways but sometimes I just like a good seeing to if you know what I mean. Anyone had a relationship with a man like it?! Did you find ways to make it enjoyable?! How?! It's not a deal breaker for me, but I just love sex so this is a bit disappointing. I'd never tell him, he seems oblivious to it, so not sure if other women he's been with found it an issue!

Two dealbreakers - not enough up top or not enough downstairs.

Both binnable situations.

It's about 3 inches id say, not bigger! And it's not even big in width either!

I do really really like him!! I'm hoping I can find a way to just be ok with it! I don't think there's anything wrong with my downstairs, I've never had a problem with anyone else and I do my pelvic floors regularly!

I recently dated someone who was “small”, at first it didn’t bother me, I tried to find positions that made it feel deeper (mainly involving me being extra bendy) but after a while I got really frustrated as I could not climax with him at all, sex got boring as I didn’t look forward to him having a great time and me not such a great time.

You say it’s not a deal breaker but if you enjoy sex as much as you say it will become a deal breaker.

Do have a look online at positions that may help you feel more, also sex isn’t just about PIV, he can satisfy you through 4play, toys etc...

fascinating. so size does matter?

I've only ever had one sexual relationship that was penetrative - and that was my exH. We were married 25yrs and I had no complaints but clearly I had nothing to compare it to!!

Like Crazy, I’ve slept with quite a few men and there have been variations in penis size. For me there’s been no evidence that large penis = better sex. In fact, the worst sex I’ve ever had was with a chap who was very well endowed.

I can see how a micro penis might cause issues but smaller than average doesn’t bother me as long as the chemistry is there are they are proficient at oral! I bet he’s not oblivious to it either. But really, what man is going to say ‘I know I’ve got a small penis’.

But if it doesn’t work for you, then end it. You can end a relationship for whatever reason you choose.

Lovehoney do a canny extension kit!!

Be honest with yourself, don't try to talk yourself into being ok with it if you're not.

For me, I've got to be able to feel it's there, no question.

Tough one though, if he's a great guy.

Fingers are there for a reason....
Give him time, as it sounds like you really like him.

I'd be over the moon. I bloody hate big dicks. Especially because the majority of guys IME think all they've got to do is drop their keks and you'll be gushing. Smaller guys try harder. Plus at least 50% of the time I don't have penetrative sex anyway.

Op try different positions. From behind, make sure you arch your back and get your upper torso as flat to the bed as possible. In missionary, put your legs over his shoulders. Basically any position that a) gives him more depth and b) compresses your vagina.

You can also try actively squeezing with your pelvic muscles during sex, this will improve sensation for both of you.

Op

Would he try a strap on? 😂😂😂😂

You can't ask him that!!!!

I've had this. Am actually wondering if it's the same guy as he too seemed oblivious. He was a very nice kind and gentle man but in the end I couldn't live with the small size. I felt awful about it (didn't tell him of course) but it was a deal breaker for me.
We split a few months ago. He started seeing someone new a couple of months ago ...

Hmm, I dated someone with a tiny penis. Less than 3 inches when fully erect. Couldn't feel a thing.

I suppose you could put up with it if everything else is great. Maybe sort yourself out with a big dildo, when he isn't around.

Lol some of the replies!

I don't feel like I should suggest anything to him as he doesn't seem to realise it's small?! So suggesting a strap on would really upset him I would imagine!

Ugh it's so frustrating! He's bloody perfect in every other way! But intercourse is important to me, I know I wouldn't be ok without it. I could suggest using toys though without mentioning why...

@Macaroni46 how old is he?! Lol

If you have sex again try missionary but with your legs on his shoulders? This normally works to increase the feeling. But overall if sex isn’t working then you are just not compatible

Never seen a 3in willy. wow - do they exist?

I thought when erect they all stood to an approx 6in attention?

isn't that what we are taught in biology lessons?

I went from the biggest I'd been with straight to the smallest (but not the skinniest). It was a crap deal. The sex was OK but he also had ED and foreplay was nonexistent, so it was rarely good. I still enjoyed it as I loved him but boy did I notice the difference.

Tricky one. I need to feel a penis in me when I’m having sex. I did once have a boyfriend with a small penis although I don’t know how small. Must be really difficult before men though.

Somewhere on reddit or piston heads is a man posting with the title ‘new woman, massive fanny’

Well this is it. The trouble is a micro penis makes you feel like Slack Alice. 🤦🏼‍♀️

Mid 50s.

Never seen a 3in willy. wow - do they exist?

I thought when erect they all stood to an approx 6in attention?

isn't that what we are taught in biology lessons?

I despair! No, that's not true at all.

OP, if I were you, I'd encourage him to work on foreplay more. Surely he can satisfy you through foreplay and then himself through penetration?

He also snored dreadfully and farted a lot 🙄

Here’s the thing - anyone can dump anyone else for any reason because we are not bound by oath and honour to stay with someone forever and ever more in any circumstance. So all of you carping on about people being shallow and what if this was a man - well, if a man needed a woman to have big breasts to be attractive to him, he’d be within his rights not to date someone with small breasts, and whether or not that makes them shallow is utterly immaterial because nobody has to stay in any relationship, not even if other people think they’re a twat for not staying in it.

Fuck me some people on here think nobody should ever split up with anyone even when they’ve been together about two minutes.

It was a dealbreaker for me. The penis between his legs was nothing compared to the size of the one on his head.

I thought when erect they all stood to an approx 6in attention?

No

isn't that what we are taught in biology lessons?

Who taught you biology? Actually, thinking about it, I don't think I was taught much in biology. But there is quite a variation in both width and length.