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New man small penis

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fedupdotcomlo · 16/02/2020 20:02

Been together a couple months, only had sex recently. He has a small penis. I've slept with quite a few men over the years and none have been as small as this one. I really like him, we just click, he's so kind thoughtful literally everything I want in a man. I do fancy him, I do want to have sex with him but it's difficult, I can't feel it when it's in!! He seems to enjoy it but I don't. He's good with everything else, can please me in other ways but sometimes I just like a good seeing to if you know what I mean. Anyone had a relationship with a man like it?! Did you find ways to make it enjoyable?! How?! It's not a deal breaker for me, but I just love sex so this is a bit disappointing. I'd never tell him, he seems oblivious to it, so not sure if other women he's been with found it an issue!

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Tulipan · 16/02/2020 20:55

Strap on?
Kegels for you as well maybe?

lilgreen · 16/02/2020 20:55

Never had one too small but did have too big and that was awful and painful. What a shame op.

LipsyGirl · 16/02/2020 20:56

Oh no Op, is he good at foreplay?

Some girls orgasm from foreplay rather than sex?

Seems a shame to end it over this

Warmfirechocolate · 16/02/2020 20:56

I think of myself as not shallow, but yes I’ve walked away from small.

As pp have said, other women may be more into other stuff sexually anyway, or it might not be so important, I have women friends who aren’t that into sex. So he will find someone.

But I like a satisfying sex life! It’s really important to me. I don’t mind if they aren’t Greek gods, but I have to be compatible on this. If you do too, and this isn’t it, then you cannot change it so walk on.

Kittykat93 · 16/02/2020 20:57

God I'd feel awful suggesting a strap on.. That would probably really hurt the guys feelings

LipsyGirl · 16/02/2020 20:58

My DH has a huge Penis, sometimes my eyes feel like there going to pop out Grin

I’d love a medium size sometimes!

WorraLiberty · 16/02/2020 20:58

If the guy seems oblivious to having a small penis, I don't think asking him to wear a strap-on is a good idea.

Fallsballs · 16/02/2020 20:58

@restingbitchface30 ‘let me know if I hurt you’ 🤪 some chance.
It’s different strokes for different folks...some many not mind a micro dick but it’s just disappointing in general. If you don’t mind not knowing when sex has begun and when it’s over then crack on.

lilgreen · 16/02/2020 20:58

Most women orgasm through clitoral stimulation I’d have thought, not through penetration alone.

TaliZorahVasNormandy · 16/02/2020 21:00

My ex had a decent size penis but was shit in bed. So, not a dealbreaker for me.

There's ways around it.

BigFatLiar · 16/02/2020 21:00

This comes up as a regular topic. Just waiting now for some bloke to come along containing his new girlfriend has small tits/big tits should he dump her and everyone saying yeah dump her.

northernlittledonkey · 16/02/2020 21:01

I'd like to think I'm Spartacus, but more Orville.

Fallsballs · 16/02/2020 21:02

I doubt a guy would come on here moaning about tit size in fairness, he can do that on many other chat boards.

Chocolate1984 · 16/02/2020 21:02

Another no from me. I dated a man with a 4/5” penis and it was rubbish. He was great at oral, and always more than happy to do it, but I just wanted a decent sized penis. I remember sometimes I’d be on top of him counting just for some distraction. It was slightly better from behind but I was still faking. I eventually couldn’t be bothered having sex as it wasn’t worth it.

restingbitchface30 · 16/02/2020 21:02

@CalleighDoodle why thanks, I don’t beat around the bush, neither did he really 😊 can’t believe I just said that

Ellie56 · 16/02/2020 21:03

Somewhere on reddit or piston heads is a man posting with the title ‘new woman, massive fanny’
Grin

RuffleCrow · 16/02/2020 21:03

Had a ONS with a guy like this. It was especially crap as i'd fancied him for ages. No wonder it had taken him so long to act on our 'chemistry'! He didn't want me to know, obvs. I remember sort of hopping around on it thinking "is it even in?" I was pretty young at that age so must have it been truly tiny for me not to have felt it - i mean i can never not feel a flipping tampon when it's in!

Personally i lost all interest in him that night and would never have wanted to go there again. Harsh, but he got back together with his girlfriend shortly afterwards anyway.

MyCatIsVicious · 16/02/2020 21:03

IMO Life is to short to be stuck with a small dick. Either move on or ask how he feels about you getting the D from elsewhere, he might be a cuck for all we know

Fallsballs · 16/02/2020 21:05

Life is too short for a micro cock.
Good country and western song title.

ClubfootMaestro · 16/02/2020 21:05

A genuinely tiny penis is one thing but there are people who would break up with someone for having a 4 or 5 inch penis? Shock

fleamadonna · 16/02/2020 21:06

It’s really tricky isn’t it.

I had a guy in my life once who was pretty perfect. Hilarious, handsome, we did that whole will-they-won’t-they thing for ages which was really thrilling.

And then we did and it was so small. I figured it didn’t matter, there’s loads of imperfect things about me too. I have tiny tits and I’ve pushed two babies out of my vagina.

But ultimately the sex wasn’t good enough for either of us. That’s no one’s fault. We’ve both had satisfying sexual relationships with other people since.

CrazyToast · 16/02/2020 21:07

I have slept with guys with a range of sizes and really have not noticed that big size means better sex, more or fewer orgasms. It just means more likelihood of cystitis. Everyone is different though.

restingbitchface30 · 16/02/2020 21:08

@RuffleCrow hopping around on it 😂

StormBaby · 16/02/2020 21:09

You aren't sexually compatible and actually penis size has very little to do with it, you just don't fit together right. Humans are like two pieces of a jigsaw and if it's wrong, it's wrong. I was with someone with a very small one for a couple of years, we had a very adventurous sex life but we just didn't fit right. I had constant cystitis, he just really aggravated my bladder. 🤣
My now DH is only just average sized, but we just fit perfectly and I'm always satisfied.

Ballstothisdotcom · 16/02/2020 21:10

I once got horribly drunk on a second date and gave my date a blow job. I thought I had an amazing gag reflex until the next time and he had the smallest penis I’ve ever seen.

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