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Been together a couple months, only had sex recently. He has a small penis. I've slept with quite a few men over the years and none have been as small as this one. I really like him, we just click, he's so kind thoughtful literally everything I want in a man. I do fancy him, I do want to have sex with him but it's difficult, I can't feel it when it's in!! He seems to enjoy it but I don't. He's good with everything else, can please me in other ways but sometimes I just like a good seeing to if you know what I mean. Anyone had a relationship with a man like it?! Did you find ways to make it enjoyable?! How?! It's not a deal breaker for me, but I just love sex so this is a bit disappointing. I'd never tell him, he seems oblivious to it, so not sure if other women he's been with found it an issue!

I dated a couple of men with tiny penises one after the other, it really didn’t work and it was the reason it didn’t go beyond dating. I couldn’t believe my bad luck after I’d told my girlfriends I’d never had a little one, karma!! It was a shame because they were both really great in every other way and very good looking. I know one of them is now married to a lovely girl so she clearly doesn’t have an issue with it.

It’s a deal breaker for me, there’s only so many shapes you can make staring at the ceiling bored. I used to plan my food shop in my head too 😆😆, crap sex but I didn’t forget the milk in Tesco 🤣.

I for one wouldn't see it as a dealbreaker alone, some big men can be intimidating. Think it all comes down to compatibility

Here's my advice:

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@PeppyPiggy, but flaccid means nothing! He may have been quite large when erect? OP, for me it's about far more than penis size. Definitely carry on if you like him!

Breaking it off is a bit harsh.

End the relationship though, sure.

😆 Brilliant, @PixieRabbit

If you enjoy PIVbut can’t feel him, it’s not going to work out. Yes there are lots of ways to enjoy sex and orgasm but if you enjoy being fucked and being able to feel it, this isn’t going to work out no matter how good he is at oral or with fingers/toys.

Better to break up now before you get even more attached to him!

I admit to preferring a large penis and have been spoilt with my FWB since my divorce. Ex-h was average, nothing to write home about. I did have a boyfriend with a very small penis years ago and it wasn't particularly an issue as he made an awful lot of effort. It's personal preference isn't it? I don't know what I'd do in your situation OP, but I think I'd be honest with myself if it was likely to become an issue long term.

@lots33 I'm so sorry, I hope your boy finds somebody lovely in the future who will love him regardless. I appreciate complete strangers on an anonymous forum are speaking quite honestly but it doesn't mean that size preference is an issue for everybody, because it really isn't

I have just changed my name in here as I don't want to be identified.
I'm a guy with a small (ish) penis. It's about 5 and a bit inches. I haven't had loads of sex partners but sex has always been good. It is something I used to worry about but I found that partners who keep their pelvic floors in good shape could certainly feel me. One partner had a vagina like a clowns pocket, and that wasn't so good but I doubt she would have noticed if I had inserted a rolling pin! I would love to have a larger penis because it would increase my confidence and I guess 3" would be disappointing but I do wonder if those who have commented that below 6" would be a deal breaker might just be shifting the blame for having a sloppy undercarriage.

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Shallow as it sounds I broke it off with a guy I was seeing who had a really small penis.

That's very extreme - and only going to make it even worse, surely....

X-posted!

@Mansperspective I just don’t understand why you havent managed to have many Sex partners

Sorry to hear about his teeny peeny.

My ex had a small penis. It was such a disappointment. He was a huge strapping rugby type guy, 6ft5, lovely broad shoulders but this very small disappointing penis that just didnt fit with the rest of him. He was aware of it and told me previous partners had commented on the size. It wasnt too much of an issue to me however we did break up and now that I look back I do feel relieved that that wasnt going to be the last sex I had.

@Mansperspective Average penis size is 5.5 inches I think? You'd only be slightly below average. I wonder if porn has distorted expectations here.

Hate to break it to you @Mansperspective but women can appear to be having a good time but in fact their writing a shopping list in their head or hoping if they make enough noise you'll stop thrashing about with your small one and finish.

Because I was shy in my. 20s and lacked confidence. I'm married now and have 3 lovely kids.

Porn has totally fucked mens idea of what normal D looks like..as well as what an adult womans 'undercarriage' looks like, sloppy or otherwise!

This thread makes me sad.

Theres a chance my ds9 will have a small penis and this makes me fear for him.

Do men with a small penis not deserve love, marriage, a family?

It should be about the person they are, not penis size.

I wouldn't say 5 and half inches is a dealbreaker though, seen a few that size

I've heard people say that their partner has that small a willy, that they can't feel it when it's in. But I can feel a tampon when it's in, well at least when it's going in, so how blooming small must his wee winkie be??

Try a Cocksleeve if you do really like this man.

Funny how everyone back tracked after Lot33 posted!
I’m sure it will be fine, just not got me, or anyone else on here!
Truth is it’s shit and he will have to get used to knowing that he will be a disappointment to 95% of women.
Can you prepare him for this? Not sure.

I agree porn is a lot to blame for people's perspectives, all you see on there are beautifully bleached a holes and vaginas, pert tits, and large penises

@queenoffice
Tbh if I would rather not waste time with someone who pretended. I know I'm not large but the partners I had always came back for more. When my relationships ended it was me that ended them and it wasn't about sex.

Poor guy, must be like throwing a sausage up Oxford St.

Technique is important, position, imagination and squeeze your muscles tight. If you really fancy him it works.

Some of the best sex I have had was with smaller men because they know how to position themselves and how to move, one in particular who would barely move but was in just the right spot. Not bouncing in and out or banging away, just slow and sensual.