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Been together a couple months, only had sex recently. He has a small penis. I've slept with quite a few men over the years and none have been as small as this one. I really like him, we just click, he's so kind thoughtful literally everything I want in a man. I do fancy him, I do want to have sex with him but it's difficult, I can't feel it when it's in!! He seems to enjoy it but I don't. He's good with everything else, can please me in other ways but sometimes I just like a good seeing to if you know what I mean. Anyone had a relationship with a man like it?! Did you find ways to make it enjoyable?! How?! It's not a deal breaker for me, but I just love sex so this is a bit disappointing. I'd never tell him, he seems oblivious to it, so not sure if other women he's been with found it an issue!

It may work remember: it's not about the size it's what you can do it with..

But less then 5 inches and I'd be out

About 10 years ago I had an FWB who was under endowed.

Like a lady’s finger.

On our first night he said about 5 minutes in “by the way I know it’s tiny but I’ll make up for it in other ways”...

To be fair we saw each other weekly for about 2 years and in the end I had fallen for him even though it was never going anywhere.

Also im sure men also moan and take the piss out of women for their post natal vaginas on the other website, the one for mens whats it called again

@hotstepper4 nobody has said anything like that. This thread has included a few wee willies who are married.

Thanks for all the replies.

No doubt I am overthinking and he’ll be fine.

Best to be prepared anyway!

He thinks is penis is a fine specimen anyway - no confidence issues! 😂😂

After a couple of months you can end it cause he keeps ketchup/jam/tomatoes in the fridge/cupboard/table or because he tells a crap joke. No need to compromise too much at this point

I’ve experienced this, too. Many moons ago, I started dating a friend of a friend. He was handsome, funny, intelligent, great chemistry, amazing career, lots of fun. He was 6’4” with broad shoulders, dressed beautifully, smelled gorgeous, too. All of the build up and excitement and after 6 weeks or so of amazing dates, we ended up in bed... I didn’t feel a thing!!! Maybe like the size of my thumb. He didn’t seem to notice any problems and thought everything went amazingly. I didn’t call him back when he got in contact the next day or any day after!! Which is quite dreadful I know now. This was before Facebook and text messages etc, so it was easy to avoid someone by not answering calls.

I think that there was bad karma, as my now DH, who I married a few years after that, is good looking, intelligent, well endowed etc. He is also grumpy and has nearly zero sex drive!!! So that’s another story.

With hindsight, I’d say don’t be too quick to judge the small appendage if the relationship is otherwise fun and engaging!

@PixieRabbit
Breaking it off is a bit harsh.
End the relationship though, sure
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I am Slack Alice (thank you dd 10lbs and born wider than you were long). I once dated mr micro penis. Luckily I found out before we got to the penetrative sex stage. It was definitely a dealbreaker for me, not least because I thought it would be pretty humiliating for both of us.

they know how to position themselves and how to move

Oh that's as nonsensical as saying all big guys are crap in bed cos they just bang away.

Good sex depends on the chemistry between you, I think. I don't believe that an individual can be good at sex and please everyone he or she goes to bed with - I think it's about how a couple work together.

Oh I went with a guy with suchhhh a small one at one point but fucking hell I fancied him and he was the only person I’ve ever been with to give me multiple orgasms with that tiny little prawn of his and he was very good in other ways - he was quite honest in that he’d had to develop other talents because he was lacking in the penis department.

When I read these threads I feel genuinely bad for these men because they can’t (without major surgery) change this one thing about them and it’s such a dealbreaker (not rightly or wrongly) for so many people. Poor chaps!!

Oooo I've recently chatted to a guy on tinder and he said "does size matter to you?" Well this has got the mind boggling. Does he mean his height or his penis? I'm too polite to ask. I have no idea if it's large or small but accepts and hopes I do too 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

FWIW I think a too large a penis is worse than too small. This after having experiencing both extremes

@Sadie789 see my heart aches for that man and this knowledge he has of his teeny tiny winky.

Some of them don’t seem to know though. One guy asked me - ‘I think I know the answer to this question but is mine small?’

*Breaking it off is a bit harsh.

End the relationship though, sure.*

Crying laughing and snorting at this, thank you @PixieRabbit

Oh goodness, I am hardly the oracle of penises, given that I am nearly 50 and am only on my third.

However... I would say that in my very limited experience, DP's is on the small side. However, I love him more than anything other than my DC, and I would cross deserts naked just to hold his hand. We have sex 3-4 times a week, and I would ideally like it every day, but will settle for that.

I am hardly a goddess. I am short and tiny (no tits) and have pushed out three 10lb babies. I also have a cervical prolapse, so am hardly perfect in the genital department.

He hasn't ditched me for these reasons, though, so I'm not about to dump him for his shortcomings, either. He is delicious.

If it’s enough of a problem to post on here, you know he’s not the one for you.
Life’s too short. Just like his penis.

Would be a dealbreaker for me im afraid

Also wondering a bit about the measuring thing. Do you really have a tape measure handy?

Oh my word this thread has amused me no end
Sorry but it's a passion killer. I like to get pounded. My DH is a good size but me ex well it was so small and wide it just kept popping out when doggy style

DP's feels a bit small. But compared to DC1's head, anything would feel small.

I've had two partners in my past who had a micro penis (both 3 inch or slightly under). One wasn't a peoblem because he made up for it in other ways. The other also had erectile disfunction, wasn't good at oral and wanted me to do all the work. It's not about dumping someone because of the size of their penis but if the sex is unsatisfactory then it's a problem.

Just as an FYI, a 15.3cm (6") Penis is in the 92nd percentile.

3" is in the 1st percentile. So the chaps really unlucky AND he must know he's got a tiny todger.

7" or higher is 99-100th percentile.

So I can't see how some of you deem 5" to be small?

Anyway, thanks for attending my TED Talk on bell curves and penis length.

I dunno, just break up if you can't see it working out. He'll find someone else, you'll find someone else. Nothing worse than a pity shag.

Penetration is my favourite part of sex, I have stopped dating a couple of guys who were small 🤷🏾‍♀️

@lots33 I'm sorry, I am open minded, most definitely, I'm hoping I can find a way to be alright with it. it's not the be all and end all for everyone. The right woman will be fine with it!