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New man small penis

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fedupdotcomlo · 16/02/2020 20:02

Been together a couple months, only had sex recently. He has a small penis. I've slept with quite a few men over the years and none have been as small as this one. I really like him, we just click, he's so kind thoughtful literally everything I want in a man. I do fancy him, I do want to have sex with him but it's difficult, I can't feel it when it's in!! He seems to enjoy it but I don't. He's good with everything else, can please me in other ways but sometimes I just like a good seeing to if you know what I mean. Anyone had a relationship with a man like it?! Did you find ways to make it enjoyable?! How?! It's not a deal breaker for me, but I just love sex so this is a bit disappointing. I'd never tell him, he seems oblivious to it, so not sure if other women he's been with found it an issue!

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Buggedandconfused · 20/02/2020 09:05

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BigButtons · 20/02/2020 10:15

Hurrah!

Nowayorhighway · 20/02/2020 10:16

I dated a guy with a tiny penis once but he definitely was self conscious about it and pre-warned me which I found sad, felt sorry for him. He was overweight as well so sex was pretty tricky but I really liked him otherwise. We did have quite passionate sex despite his small penis and, um, larger tummy. We usually did it with him coming in from behind but me lying down flat if that makes sense and it worked best for us. Ended for other reasons, nothing to do with his dick size.

Mummyoflittledragon · 20/02/2020 10:51

That’s a fab update. So please for you!! 😁

ffswhatnext · 20/02/2020 11:36

Glad to hear you found a way that gives you pleasure.
I understand what pp meant about shit Sex isn’t worth it. But sometimes all it needs is a tiny bit of work and things can very quickly turn pleasurable as you found out.
And there’s times when short term they aren’t great with their cocks but their hand/mouth skills are worth it. And when the fuck time comes - sorry mate you’ve worn me out 🤣

peachypeachy999 · 20/02/2020 12:17

I met a guy I was really attracted to and we’ve been together for 18 months.
I love him madly and He has quite a small penis, it’s about 6” long but not a lot of girth. I cannot feel it. I remember the thrill of us tearing our clothes off in a fancy hotel the first time and then went it went in thinking “oh”.
I started to worry I had some sort of bucket fanny, my ex husband had a much bigger penis (although not large) and I could force him out with my fanny muscles.
This guy is phenomenal at oral sex though and I’m very bendy, if I’m almost rolled up on a ball on my back he seems to love that.
He can’t manage more than once either (I can go for hours) so when he’s done I usually ask if he’d mind if I use my rabbit to “have just one more” and I climax instantly.
Occasionally we have anal sex, I’ve never been a fan of that really but I honestly think it’s the only way either of us feel anything.
If I lay almost flat on top of him and frantically ride I can reach climax through clitoral stimulation.
I know what you mean though, I really love sex and I miss just decent missionary banging without all the gymnastics.
Also, and I’ve never had this problem before, when I’m giving him a blow job I find it more difficult, you have to work a lot harder and my gag reflex is bad.
Despite all this I fancy him more than anyone I’ve ever been out with!

pickletickled · 20/02/2020 22:07

I once heard that nose size correlates with penis size. I don't know if it's true
IME a definite yes! big nose has equaled big/massive penis.
Big feet not so much.
My dh has a big nose and feet I'd say smaller than they should be for his height and a massive cock
I've not encountered a micro. The smallest was probably hot dog sized maybe a bit bigger - he totally did not know how to use it though so that wasn't an experience I ever repeated.
A colleague online dates and she was with a guy who after date 2 openly told her he had a little one.
As more drinks flowed, she wondered how little so decided during a snog, to go in for a grope :)
She said things were getting quite hot when she done it so she expected him to be hard to some degree.....she said it felt like a little finger. She knew it wouldn't work for her so didn't date him again. The guy had been married and fathered children so it was clearly in working order, just tiny.

Barkley34 · 20/02/2020 22:52

Blimey. Some of the replies here . . .6inches bring small Shock

KittyTsui · 20/02/2020 22:59

@barkley34 you can thank P*rn for that ;)

Luckystar777 · 20/02/2020 23:10

Lmfao, it would be hilarious if those of you who've had micro penis found out you've all had the SAME micro penis, ahahahahahahahah. Grin

NoMoreDickheads · 20/02/2020 23:23

@Luckystar777 He was a wanker, I wouldn't wish him on anyone lol.

@fedupdotcomlo Glad you had a good nite, please let us know how you get on. xx

Pandamoore · 21/02/2020 04:16

Better than a giant one that you need a map to navigate

SimonJT · 21/02/2020 05:09

@pickletickled My partner has a cute little nose, he most definitely doesn’t have a cute little penis.

Jigsaw2000 · 21/02/2020 08:27

He was a wanker, I wouldn't wish him on anyone lol.

Small hands too?

Saoirse22 · 21/02/2020 08:59

Glad you found what's working for you, OP! Sounds like you really like this man and are willing to work with what you have (what he has, lol). Good for you.

There's small and there's micro. The first one is doable if people are really interested in each other, the second... Huh. I'm not obsessed with size in any way, but micro is just absolutely unappealing to me. I'm glad my dating days are over and my OH is perfectly big size for me and has a perfect technique. Maybe he wouldn't look so in someone else's eyes, but to me he's exactly what I want and need.

Saoirse22 · 21/02/2020 09:10

There's that one story though... I was young and foolish and would rather forget the whole episode.

When I was 18 or so, I encountered a micro penis. I really clicked with the guy who was very smart, we had plenty of shared interests. He was insecure about girls, himself, just generally inexperienced with life, but he seemed to be genuinely kind person. Not that I had lots of experience.

Fast forward the night I faced what I didn't expect. We undressed and I just didn't know how to react to the micro thing I saw, I was totally frozen with him above me trying to put on a standard condom that was way too big for what he had Confused. All I could think about was how I had to find a way to excuse myself because I couldn't stand the idea of that little worm in me. Any good feelings I had for the guy disappeared like they were never there.

To make things even worse, he suddenly blurted out that would be his 1st time. In a second, I rewinded the previous few days in my head and realised that it was obvious he had a real fixation on me. I couldn't do it, I didn't feel for him what he felt for me.

So I did the only sensible thing... I instantly said I must go to the toilet urgently, dressed myself, gathered all my stuff like it was needed for the toiled business, and left his place.

Yes, I ran away from a guy with a micro penis. No regrets. I will probably never be able to fully forget the sight, it was that terrible.

Letseatgrandma · 21/02/2020 09:32

Apologies for naivety here and tmi alert...

...Is a micropenis actually one that looks like it hasn’t gone through puberty (thin like a pinky finger) or is it just a very short but still man (girth) sized one?

Zhuleva · 21/02/2020 09:45

Years ago I slept with two men in a row whose erect penises pointed straight down rather than up. Apparently it's quite common, but I'd not seen it before. They were both South American so I wondered idly if they were pointing towards home

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