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New man small penis

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fedupdotcomlo · 16/02/2020 20:02

Been together a couple months, only had sex recently. He has a small penis. I've slept with quite a few men over the years and none have been as small as this one. I really like him, we just click, he's so kind thoughtful literally everything I want in a man. I do fancy him, I do want to have sex with him but it's difficult, I can't feel it when it's in!! He seems to enjoy it but I don't. He's good with everything else, can please me in other ways but sometimes I just like a good seeing to if you know what I mean. Anyone had a relationship with a man like it?! Did you find ways to make it enjoyable?! How?! It's not a deal breaker for me, but I just love sex so this is a bit disappointing. I'd never tell him, he seems oblivious to it, so not sure if other women he's been with found it an issue!

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fedupdotcomlo · 16/02/2020 21:44

@Macaroni46 nah not him then lol he's mid 30s! He does snore though lol

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fedupdotcomlo · 16/02/2020 21:45

He is good with foreplay!! No complaints there whatsoever he is definitely eager to please! That's not an issue! It's simply that I do love intercourse but I'm struggling to see how I'll enjoy it with him 😩

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Ellie56 · 16/02/2020 21:45

3 inches? Wow that is one weeny peeny. What are you going to do OP?

Bananasandchocolatecustard · 16/02/2020 21:47

A small penis is a deal breaker for me.

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fedupdotcomlo · 16/02/2020 21:47

Weeny peeny 🤣🤣. Oh I don't know. I think I'll try and be ok with it. Try and embrace it lol. I feel like he's worth it.

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Scott72 · 16/02/2020 21:48

"I don't feel like I should suggest anything to him as he doesn't seem to realise it's small?"

I'm sure he realizes. Just break up with him, but don't tell him the reason why. There's another thread here now about a woman with a flabby tummy who's boyfriend told her how unhappy he was with it. The consensus there seems to be he was okay to break up with her over it, but an asshole to point it out to her.

PixieRabbit · 16/02/2020 21:50

Little in life is perfect

Well, not in this instance.

Ellie56 · 16/02/2020 21:50

I think you might be struggling to embrace it OP. Grin

QueenOfOversharing · 16/02/2020 21:50

I shagged a guy I'd been friends with for ages. He had a cock like a walnut whip.

lots33 · 16/02/2020 21:50

It’s quite sobering and upsetting to read this.

My son was born with a medical condition and has has many operations. He is now, at 11, continent but it was no mean feat to achieve that.

His penis is small. It will always been small. I had convinced myself that it would not matter and that potential partners would be open minded.

I guess I am wrong.

user1471449295 · 16/02/2020 21:51

Having had pretty huge before and suffering greatly, my perfect is 5-6 inches. I imagined you to probably be over reacting, but 3 inches is very small, and I don’t think o could stay with that either tbh

Crinkle77 · 16/02/2020 21:52

Shallow as it sounds I broke it off with a guy I was seeing who had a really small penis. Couldn't feel a thing and it just put me right off.

Calevlace · 16/02/2020 21:52

Maybe you have a bucket fanny?

Scott72 · 16/02/2020 21:56

From reading this forum lots33 you do get the impression almost all woman consider a small willy an absolute dealbreaker. I do hope this is just online bluster and some women will accept him when his is older.

PixieRabbit · 16/02/2020 21:57

Breaking it off is a bit harsh.

End the relationship though, sure.

LifeImplosionImminent · 16/02/2020 21:58

@calevace a bucket fanny because she can't feel 3 inches? Do you have a vag the size of thimble?

fleamadonna · 16/02/2020 22:00

lots33 the man from the sexual encounter I described upthread is now happily married to an absolutely stunning and lovely woman. It’s not all about piv sex, even if it’s an issue for the op and some of the posters here.

ffsjudy · 16/02/2020 22:00

I think I've had sex with one man with a tiny cock. He knew it and definitely made more effort in other ways but I couldn't really feel him and I didn't like that.
I've also dated a bloke with a huge cock and that wasn't great either. He was an angry little man (apart from his cock obvs) and shagged like that too so it hurt and he didn't make a lot of effort to do anything else.

Maybe I'm Goldilocks.

PeppyPiggy · 16/02/2020 22:01

LOL I saw my stepdads penis when him and my mum were drunk and naked and passed out on the couch and I was confused about what was going on because his willy was so tiny I thought he had nude trousers on and he was all sprawled over my mum on his back so it was right in full view, TINY. They have been married for forever, can't believe she's had a lifetime of tiny penis haha. I too could not carry on with an ex because of this but if I'm honest he's the only ex I ever miss from time to time but still... nah

ffsjudy · 16/02/2020 22:01

@lots33 it won't matter to all women but it will to some. That's the honest answer.

ffsjudy · 16/02/2020 22:02

Or men

VioletCharlotte · 16/02/2020 22:03

There was a thread on here earlier today where a women posted about how upset she was about a comment a man made about her tummy. Without exception, posters agreed he was an arsehole.

Yet here we have a thread full of posts from women who are all saying they would dump a lovely man just because he has a small penis. Men read this forum too, can you imagine how hurtful this could be too someone?

PeppyPiggy · 16/02/2020 22:04

to all the people feeling sad for the small willy men, you need to have a look at some mens forums and have a look at the way they talk about us maybe....

floatygoat · 16/02/2020 22:05

@lots33 Thanks sorry your son was born with a medical condition, I for one wouldn't find it a deal breaker. There are many women who won't.

Ellie56 · 16/02/2020 22:05

lots33 I'm sure if your son is a kind and thoughtful young man, there will be someone out there for him.

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