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Been together a couple months, only had sex recently. He has a small penis. I've slept with quite a few men over the years and none have been as small as this one. I really like him, we just click, he's so kind thoughtful literally everything I want in a man. I do fancy him, I do want to have sex with him but it's difficult, I can't feel it when it's in!! He seems to enjoy it but I don't. He's good with everything else, can please me in other ways but sometimes I just like a good seeing to if you know what I mean. Anyone had a relationship with a man like it?! Did you find ways to make it enjoyable?! How?! It's not a deal breaker for me, but I just love sex so this is a bit disappointing. I'd never tell him, he seems oblivious to it, so not sure if other women he's been with found it an issue!

Girth is important too. One bloke I knew was the diameter of a tennis ball

I dated a man with a mini pig once. He knew it was small and made lots of jokes about it. It was one of the reason's I broke it off.

I remember giving a blowjob to someone with a teeny weeny. My mouth was positioned as if I was blowing on food or sucking a straw. Weirdest thing ever. The condom fell off, inside me when we did have sex. He didn't care at all.

I think it IS important OP. But don’t be too hasty..... I’ve had the biggest penis I’ve ever seen (American - it was the length of my forearm) right through to very small and everything in between. My ex-husband was reasonably small but it was ok (ish), my younger man (French, 17 years my junior ) was really big but not so big as to be uncomfortable and we had amazing sex for over 5 years but he turned out to be a bit of a twat .... and now I’m with an Italian nearer my own age with an average size: not too big, not too small: so it’s swings and roundabouts . If you’re never satisfied, move on OP, but if you can mix it up a bit with him eg extended foreplay, deep penetrative positions, sex toys etc etc then maybe you should give him more time.....

My tactic, when I get round to dabbling again, will be an exploratory grope in a private but outdoors area under cover of darkness, when there's no risk of actual sex being expected.

Just a very close and personal hug goodbye should do it.

Ok. Totally accept I'm in the minority here, but if a man came on MN saying a woman had a massive Fanny and it didn't give him any pleasure, I reckon he would be slated. Same goes for I'd she was fat, unattractive or any other thing she might not have any control of.

As you were.

And what happens if the only issue is size? Wouldn't doing something proactive about it be more beneficial to both?

Sometimes we have to let them know but in a sensitive way. I could have a guy go down on me who keeps just missing that spot. I'm not going to lay there and not enjoy it, and if that's all he did wrong I wouldn't bin him off. Instead, I would guide him to hit that spot.

And surely when you're a new couple, you experiment with positions and stuff to find out what works with you both. Cos what worked with the previous guy might not give the same pleasure with the next guy.

And what happens if the only issue is size? Wouldn't doing something proactive about it be more beneficial to both?

Not really. Im not a sex therapist. I want what works for me, not trying to guide someone who I know can’t give me everything I want sexually.

Ok. Totally accept I'm in the minority here, but if a man came on MN saying a woman had a massive Fanny and it didn't give him any pleasure, I reckon he would be slated. Same goes for I'd she was fat, unattractive or any other thing she might not have any control of.

Nope. Haven't seen that happen. Told not to waste her time, cut her loose, tell her it's not working out and you both move on to find someone you're more compatible with. Anything else is actually cruel to the other person, and quite immature and selfish.

And what happens if the only issue is size? Wouldn't doing something proactive about it be more beneficial to both?

Yes, moving on rather than kidding yourself that shite sex for life is something you're willing to accept if you're 100% not willing to take that on and having to tie yourself in pretzel and diddle yourself to get off every single time you shag because the anatomy isn't a good fit.

Life is WAY too short for that. I've had my share but honestly, there's so much out there, if one doesn't suit, you can easily find another without having to squeeze yourself in knots and frig yourself whilst you're shagging someone every single time.

If you want to spend your life being a sex teacher, then there's plenty of shit shags and micro dicks out there. Similarly, if you don't, there are plenty of well-hung horses to ride .

Each to his or her own. No one's morally superior to another for liking what they like.

Jacques put it so much more diplomatically .

Why not tell them the actual reason?
How are they ever going to know what when wrong and keep thinking something else is up. Honesty is the best policy.

Well because they can't change the size of their cock, Same, and for some of us, no amount of toys or oral or foreplay or trying to squeeze around a tiny one or playing sexual Twister is going to replace a right good rogering with a big 'un. I guess you could say 'sexually incompatible' but well, the other thing is to just check out and not mercy fuck them in the first place as my mate Suzi Tube Station as we came to know her did.

No they can’t change the size but they will realise it’s an issue. Maybe they will then be more cautious and not embarrass everyone

@SlowMoFuckingToes a mini pig 🤣🤣🤣 I'm laughing out loud here

I have nothing to add except ... poor man he can't help having a small one the same as women with small breasts can't help it either ... The OP needs to think about this and either dump him but not say it is because he has a small penis just say you are not ready for a serious relationship at the moment etc. I have actually dated someone like that and never told him the real reason I did not want to see him again ... just be kind.

But then he will be second guessing where it went wrong. AlwYs better to know the truth.

@PixieRabbit

I was (joking too)!

Yeah irony is hard to communicate in writing sometimes.

I can go further and say I like toned bodies with the back dicks.

What?

The mini pig was classic.

I have no intention of hurting him, I wouldn't tell him if that was the reason I'd sort of say I didn't feel like we were compatible in the bedroom! But I'm hoping it's not going to be too much of an issue for me, We have really good chemistry, he really does turn me on. The only "bad thing"about him is his little friend. That's it. I really really don't want it to end over that. It was a shock because he's a big built rugby player, I really wasn't expecting it!! I've slept with about 25 men and none have ever been even slightly small.

I had an older man I dated who liked big boobs mention boob ops to me and (when drunk) point out other women whose boobs were what he liked.

He also had ED (serious ED) and implied it was temporary, I found out from.itgef sources it wasn't.

So I cheated on him with an ex and then dumped him.

I wouldn't have done it over the ED but the boob thing etc. ....

(Though posters have already pointed out correctly that boobs are not comparable to penises so maybe that post was a bit irrelevant).

Op if you can use positions to make up for it as it were, and he makes an effort in other ways ... Hopefully it'll work for you.

Yeah I don't blame you I would have binned him for that! How disrespectful.

I have a feeling he'll expire while shagging (or trying to) a boob-implanted younger woman on viagra in Tenerife 😄.