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Been together a couple months, only had sex recently. He has a small penis. I've slept with quite a few men over the years and none have been as small as this one. I really like him, we just click, he's so kind thoughtful literally everything I want in a man. I do fancy him, I do want to have sex with him but it's difficult, I can't feel it when it's in!! He seems to enjoy it but I don't. He's good with everything else, can please me in other ways but sometimes I just like a good seeing to if you know what I mean. Anyone had a relationship with a man like it?! Did you find ways to make it enjoyable?! How?! It's not a deal breaker for me, but I just love sex so this is a bit disappointing. I'd never tell him, he seems oblivious to it, so not sure if other women he's been with found it an issue!

Never have pity sex! I think you did the right thing there.

I once dated this 6'5" rugby build type guy...
Im small only 5'2" so I was a bit frightened to sleep with him thinking his dick would be as massive as the rest of him but it was TINY

I've often wondered if there really is any correlation between penis size and shoe size.

DH has very big feet. As far as i can remember, previous partners have had average feet and average length penises.

The best sex I ever had was with the smallest guy I had ever had. He made up for it in other areas! But if you can talk to him about it (a new relationship might b a tough convo) you can get a sheath for over the top. Its basically a hollow dildo - he puts his bits in then the whole thing goes in you. Like an extension. Its a perfect solution IF he can handle the conversation!

Apparently there is no correlation between the two. HTH. www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/12230622

Anecdotally dh is slightly larger than average but with small feet.

@Jigsaw2000 I once heard that nose size correlates with penis size. I don't know if it's true

Apparently there is no correlation between the two. HTH.

" Two urologists measured the stretched penile length "

If they wanted to do it properly, they should have measured them erect.

if they wanted to do it properly, they should have measured them erect.

True. DP seems to gain about 3.5" erect vs flaccid

I've tested the nose theory, and the thumb width theory (my own), but neither were predictive.

PreDICKtive.

Amused myself.

Don't worry I'll be back with an update as soon as we've been at it again lol

I really wish there was a way of knowing. I’ve had 3 dates in the past year, guys all over 6ft (one 6’4”) who had tiny ones, like around 4 inches or less. I know I am not tiny downstairs and can orgasm from PIV so can only really enjoy sex with a biggish penis. Even oral with these guys was unsexy, and I love giving oral.

My tactic, when I get round to dabbling again, will be an exploratory grope in a private but outdoors area under cover of darkness, when there's no risk of actual sex being expected.

exploratory grope in a private but outdoors area
what if men catch on and start wearing prosthetics?

I see a guy regularly who has one that when erect is max 3 inches. He did warn me about it beforehand, and tbh, I was curious as I'd never seen one so small.

He is aware though. Doesn't help that he also has ED.

He's very, very, very eager to please me.

forget about your missionary positions and your prone bone ones.
You need to think of all those positions you tried to avoid with a massive cock.
You legs resting on one of his shoulders. Doggie but not standing behind you, he kind of squats and also sits on you with your arse as high as you can get it.
Cowgirl, reverse or forward-facing with some support under his arse. There's several positions for your legs this way as you need to try and keep them closed.

All your positions need your legs closed. You can also use a free hand to explore whilst he's fucking you. You can also encourage him to do the same. From there it would give you an easy way in to talk about toys. Start small with vibrating eggs and/or a bullet.

Would I see him exclusively? Not a chance. As much as I enjoy cuming from having my clit played with, I also enjoy fucking. Short term toys are fantastic, but after a while, you do start to miss the feeling of the real thing.

And as long as your honest with him, there's nothing wrong with trying to have some pleasure whilst looking for someone who is compatible with you.

If using the dildo sheaths, be careful as not all are condom friendly.

And talking of those. There are finger vibrators which are amazing and not as alarming for some guys as other toys can be.

And who knows, by gently introducing toys he might be up for a strap-on. However, also be aware that some blokes get curious about the toys and their prostate 🤣

Or you can just skip all the gymnastics and tell him you're incompatible and move on . Gawd, couldn't be doing with all this playing Twister to get the nub in. At least with a Rabbit you can cum in comfort not with your legs all twisted around gripping for dear life round his baby carrot.

I mean, frigging yourself whilst he's supposedly shagging you? A Doxy does that much better.

I once dated this 6'5" rugby build type guy
been there, you think 'big strong guy like that he'll be able to give it to me good and hard' and then you end up gripping for dear life round his baby carrot
he may have a big hammer but he don't got the big nail to go with it:(

@EuroMillionsWinner
It's a bloody good work out. I can spend time in the gym and not feel it. Do some gymnastics with him, and I am reminded I have stomach muscles 🤣 One of the reasons I still see him, cheaper than the gym 🤣
And cos I know he won't hurt, he's an excellent guinea pig to try those weird positions.

Haha I know. Whatever happened to all these stereotypes?
I've had a 5ft 5 guy, with size 6 feet and a massive thick cock that scared the shit out of me in the soft state.

Then microguy, he's over 6ft, and his feet are enormous. But, max 3 in 🤣

Although now I will be doing some nose research. You never know.

All your positions need your legs closed. You can also use a free hand to explore whilst he's fucking you. You can also encourage him to do the same. From there it would give you an easy way in to talk about toys. Start small with vibrating eggs and/or a bullet
I get what you're saying but reading your post gives the impression of a sex therapist whose job it is to make the man feel good about himself...and you're doing it all for free, making yourself into a pretzel

Hmm, I have heard that a lot of those big hardmen take steroids and this can cause shrinkage. A friend of mine encountered this once. He was in a ground floor flat so she told him she needed to go into the bathroom with her handbag in order to insert a diaphragm. Instead she opened the window and climbed out, legging it for the nearest Tube station.

These sort of threads always make me feel a bit sad. There is fuck all a man can do about the size of his penis. My DDs Dad had a huge one. Never occurred to him to pleasure me with hands or mouth. Guys I've met with smaller penises have tended to focus on my pleasure. I'd take an orgasm with hands or mouth any time over a big dick.

There was a lady on MN earlier saying she felt too fat to attract anyone on dating sites. I think we all need to be kind and look beyond the superficial.

Totally understand that everyone has their preferences. But being nearly 50 and having had conversations with women who will only date men 6 foot plus etc, I feel superficial has indeed what most have become.

I think we all need to be kind and look beyond the superficial.

No, we all need to set our own boundaries and not waste the time of people with whom we are incompatible by trying to fit a square peg in a round hole (no pun intended) in order to internally virtue signal to ourselves. It's far less kind to keep flogging a dead horse hoping things will change, you waste that person's time they can be using to find someone with whom they are compatible.

Totally understand that everyone has their preferences.

Not really because you don't seem to respect them. There is nothing 'superficial' about having preferences. I'd be miffed if someone wasted my time when I wasn't clicking with him, for whatever reason (physical, social, Man U supporter, vegan, whatever reason) than used me as some type of experiment to prove how woke and open-minded he was to himself (because in reality no one gives a shit what another person's preference are) instead of being mature enough to stick to his own principles, boundaries and preferences.

I think we all need to be kind and look beyond the superficial

Why? Everyone should have their own sexual boundaries. One shouldn’t put ones own happiness to the back of the queue for the sake of “being kind”.

It's not about making the man feel good, just really no-one wants to be told you tits/dick/fanny are is too big/small. The gymnastics are because simply put if I have a cock in me I want to feel it. I want to feel good and sexually satisfied.

My micro guy is fully aware of the issues and also pleasures in other ways. Something the ops guy isn't aware of. I wouldn't call it sex therapy, as I'm not there to try and resolve the issues, just receive/give mutual pleasure. His issues are his alone to deal with.

With ops guy she can either say mate you need to grow your micro dick, or look at more sensitive ways to say mate you have a small cock and if you gave a shit about my pleasure, here's how we do it. If he doesn't want to know, then regardless, bye bye.

It's not about making the man feel good, just really no-one wants to be told you tits/dick/fanny are is too big/small

Who needs to?

“This isn’t working for me”. Very easy, no need to waste time.