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fedupdotcomlo · 16/02/2020 20:02

Been together a couple months, only had sex recently. He has a small penis. I've slept with quite a few men over the years and none have been as small as this one. I really like him, we just click, he's so kind thoughtful literally everything I want in a man. I do fancy him, I do want to have sex with him but it's difficult, I can't feel it when it's in!! He seems to enjoy it but I don't. He's good with everything else, can please me in other ways but sometimes I just like a good seeing to if you know what I mean. Anyone had a relationship with a man like it?! Did you find ways to make it enjoyable?! How?! It's not a deal breaker for me, but I just love sex so this is a bit disappointing. I'd never tell him, he seems oblivious to it, so not sure if other women he's been with found it an issue!

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babasaclover · 18/02/2020 13:24

Please come back and tell us all how you get on. This thread has made me laugh out loud

Grandmasterflush · 18/02/2020 13:26

Ok can we all name three other birth defects we find hilarious and have no issue ripping the piss out off.
Oh and being born with a 2 inch cock is a birth defect. Maybe not many physical issues but psychologically massive.
You would only have to bump into a few of you lot IRL to be looking for the rope.

SummerPavillion · 18/02/2020 13:30

While I think some of these comments are a bit below the belt Grin it's also very rare and liberating for women to be able to speak honestly about their sexual preferences. And we're only doing it here as we're anonymous! For most of our history women haven't been able to talk this openly.

Whereas I guess bucket-fanny conversations between men are as old as time.

SummerPavillion · 18/02/2020 13:32

Also I highly doubt women would actually say what they think directly to the men involved. I was with xh for 17 years and never mentioned that he was too small for me, even though it made me sad the whole relationship (arguably I should've realised how important it was to me in the early days and ended it)

EuroMillionsWinner · 18/02/2020 13:36

Oh and being born with a 2 inch cock is a birth defect. Maybe not many physical issues but psychologically massive.
You would only have to bump into a few of you lot IRL to be looking for the rope.

It's not the job of women (or men if they are homo or bi-sexual) to assuage that, though. As stated, one's body is not a charity. You're allowed to not want to have sex with someone for whatever reason.

UYScuti · 18/02/2020 13:38

That's such a shame SummerP, you spent your best shagging years with someone who couldn't give you the satisfaction you needed😥

Treesthemovie · 18/02/2020 13:39

Surprised at how spiteful this thread has become! Of course OP is right to leave if she can't get sexual satisfaction in her relationship but some of these comments are really nasty.

Personally I couldn't be in a relationship without good sex but a big dick isn't that important as I can get pleasure from the smaller ones as well, micro would be another topic but I never realised so many women only got pleasure from big ones, I always thought that was more of a porn thing. The big ones look better but don't always feel better imo. However, suppose this shows that everyone is different.

JacquesHammer · 18/02/2020 13:44

Ok can we all name three other birth defects we find hilarious and have no issue ripping the piss out off

I don’t think it’s hilarious. I do think it would make a man not sexually compatible with me and that’s totally acceptable. It isn’t my (or anyone woman’s) responsibility to make men feel good about themselves at the expense of their own happiness.

GilbertMarkham · 18/02/2020 13:46

As if men don't comment among themselves on women's in a graphic and derogatory way - in fact they seem more likely to do so to the woman's face than women would be. They have their "space" to do that (and quite often do it outside that space) ... This is a female dominated anonymous forum and it's a space for women to do so.

Aside from all that - I know several guys with small, in one case micro I think, penises and I can te you it never stopped them from having (very nice looking) partners and from having kids.

Like everyone they have to sift for the partners who are a accepting of them as they are.

GilbertMarkham · 18/02/2020 13:46

*women's bodies and genitals

GilbertMarkham · 18/02/2020 13:47

*tell you

Treesthemovie · 18/02/2020 13:49

It's not womens responsibility to make men feel good about themselves. But surely people can say that's not for me, I prefer something else, without being really spiteful about it.

JacquesHammer · 18/02/2020 13:51

But surely people can say that's not for me, I prefer something else, without being really spiteful about it

Countless replies have said just that.

Treesthemovie · 18/02/2020 13:51

Do we have to lower ourselves and talk shit like so many scummy men do? Women have different preferences as well.

Grandmasterflush · 18/02/2020 13:51

I never said it was the job of women to put up with it or accept it.
Maybe just stop with the puss taking

Grandmasterflush · 18/02/2020 13:52

*piss

Grandmasterflush · 18/02/2020 13:53

Oh and yes I think I am now fully “triggered” if that’s what you were after!

JacquesHammer · 18/02/2020 13:54

Maybe just stop with the puss taking

Are you having trouble distinguishing between people responding and people having fun? Or just using sweeping statements?

SummerPavillion · 18/02/2020 13:55

UYScuti I'm still hoping my best shagging years are ahead of me Grin

UYScuti · 18/02/2020 14:03

Amen to that Summer☺️

PixieRabbit · 18/02/2020 14:05

I think it’s cat burglars who do the puss taking.

GilbertMarkham · 18/02/2020 14:06

Do we have to lower ourselves and talk shit like so many scummy men do? Women have different preferences as well.

We're not any better or any worse than men.

Why shoulder have to pretend we are.

If I want to be ribald, harsh, cavalier, base or anything else .. I can be. I don't have to pretend I'm not because I'm female. That's actually a type of chauvinism.

GilbertMarkham · 18/02/2020 14:08

I think it’s cat burglars who do the puss taking.

😂

GilbertMarkham · 18/02/2020 14:09

*should we, not shoulder.

Fkg autocorrect.

Oh should I not curse cause i'd be lowering myself to be like a man either.

PixieRabbit · 18/02/2020 14:12

So unladylike, GilbertMarkham .

Now, wash your mouth out and get back in the kitchen.

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