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Been together a couple months, only had sex recently. He has a small penis. I've slept with quite a few men over the years and none have been as small as this one. I really like him, we just click, he's so kind thoughtful literally everything I want in a man. I do fancy him, I do want to have sex with him but it's difficult, I can't feel it when it's in!! He seems to enjoy it but I don't. He's good with everything else, can please me in other ways but sometimes I just like a good seeing to if you know what I mean. Anyone had a relationship with a man like it?! Did you find ways to make it enjoyable?! How?! It's not a deal breaker for me, but I just love sex so this is a bit disappointing. I'd never tell him, he seems oblivious to it, so not sure if other women he's been with found it an issue!

@GilbertMarkham I wasn't responding to you, I was responding to a poster who was saying well men do it so why don't we. I'm just saying cunty, spiteful comments about tiny dicks degrades women who have different preferences from 8 inch pornstar cocks and men who don't have them. This promotes body image issues and shames women. How fucking patronising to say I am being chauvinistic.

I've always thought men are either 'grow-ers' or 'show-ers'.
I also think girth is really important, and can be more important than length.
I orgasm from piv in the main, but it's technique as well as size, that's important in this.
Also, if he's good at pleasing you, that's important too, as you don't always get that.

I would give it a good try and see how it goes, especially as he's great in all other aspects.

I wasn't responding to you, I was responding to a poster who was saying well men do it so why don't we. I'm just saying cunty, spiteful comments about tiny dicks degrades women who have different preferences from 8 inch pornstar cocks and men who don't have them. This promotes body image issues and shames women. How fucking patronising to say I am being chauvinistic.

I didn't think you were responding to me.

There have been a range of comments on here; why are you only focusing on the ones who've made derogatory ones about small penises? Noone reading this thread would think all women prefer large, porn star penises because only some women said they prefer large penises .. and they are perfectly within their rights to feel that way and say that. Why are you only seeing/focusing in half or less of responders

As to his they said it; again it's up to them, if they want to be harsh and derogatory they can be. You're not the niceness police.

And I said the attitude "come on, we should be better than scummy men" is chauvinist. We don't have to be any better or any worse than men; we're all just people.

*As to how

*So unladylike, GilbertMarkham .

Now, wash your mouth out and get back in the kitchen.*

Okay dokey, right after I perform fellatio on this small cock that I have right to comment on in ant way not prescribed by the "women must always be nice" behaviour police.

*have no right

I should make it clear "comment on on an anonymous forum bet ", not to someone's face. I do not support anyone being undiplomatic to anyone's face about any perceived shortcoming/preference.

You are actually the one policing me here. I can respond to whatever posts I want, I've seen lots of nasty posts on this thread so chose to comment. I know there are lots of more reasonable posts - why are you telling me I have to reply to those ones? I can call out nastiness if I want. I think shaming people on their genitals for no reason is lowest of the low.

And you are the one who's having double standards here not me. Bet you wouldnt like it if a man turned around and called you bucket fanny Gilbert. I hold myself to the same standards id expect from a man.

@GilbertMarkham

@Jigsaw2000 - DH saw your link and is now very eager to measure himself. 😂
We also googled the vibrating strap on, as we had no idea wtf it would be, and now know for certain we are absolutely vanilla after seeing some of the stuff online. Haha!

My ex had a smaller than average penis, about 4/4.5 inches and he was oblivious. He thought he was God’s gift and just pounded away, too much porn I expect. I often just thought of other things, and wished it would end, as he didn’t like to be coached.
DH however is absolutely brilliant in bed, he has a perfect sized penis for me, 6.5/7 inches and a good girth too, but years of PE with previous partners meant he had to perfect other skills and not rely on size. We’ve never had a problem with PE, but I do appreciate the time he spent perfecting!

You are actually the one policing me here.

Sure I am.

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@gilbertmarkham it's clear that you are so not sure what the skepticism is about. Your exact words:

There have been a range of comments on here; why are you only focusing on the ones who've made derogatory ones...Why are you only seeing/focusing in half or less of responders.

Telling me what I should and shouldn't be responding to. If you think it's feminist and liberatory to talk like the biggest fuckwit of a man gaun yersel...but I don't.

GilbertMarkham

I was joking! I’m a great disappointment to my mother when it comes to being ladylike.

Or maybe you were as well. It’s so hard to tell sometimes on here.

I can go further and say I like toned bodies with the back dicks. Men who don't workout are lacking in energy and fitness to match my own. I workout a lot, am very fit, and require the same. Also I keep my pussy quite tight. I'm fussy about who I'll fuck

Big obviously, not back

squishedgrapes do you mean pelvic floor squeezes or something else? Like those gadgets?

I do both, but the pelvic floor trainer is amazing

I use this one
https://www.boots.com/elvie-trainer-10239977?cmmmc=bmm-buk-google-ppccPLAsAs--(GB:Whoop!)+Elvie---(GB:Whoop!)+Boots+Shopping+-+Category+-+Health+and+Pharmacy+-+Desktop&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIrqP4Lvb5wIVyLTtCh1gAQc3EAQYASABEgL200DBwE&gclsrc=aw.ds

Oh I actually belly laughed out loud at this thread, made me think back to all my penises of youth.

Was crazy about a guy and he was big and tall and lovely build, was excited to dtd , it was the smallest penis I have ever seen and I hadn't seen many by then, he was embarrassed god bless him, and knew it was small, but it really did put me off him, I know, so shallow but I've quite a big vagina, doctor told me Id the longest vagina canal she'd ever seen when doing a smear, also needed the extra big speculum, so I knew it wouldnt work.

Have been with one man whos penis was so wide and long it actually really hurt to have sex, literally could only put it in a bit and slowly or else he would have split me in half, so he had to go too.

DH has a big one, but its perfect, sometimes when its feeling extra big and I dunno , hard? It can hurt a little bit if we get carried away, but its quite the specimen to look at which is nice also.

Jesus Christ I sound like a right weirdo.

Thanks squished, am tempted to get one.

I've always had a theory that lots of orgasms do the same thing as pelvic floor exercises, so I've done that instead Anyone agree?

Bet you wouldnt like it if a man turned around and called you bucket fanny Gilbert.

No, but if they couldn't orgasm because of it they shouldn't stay with me jusf because "nice personality"

@ughnotherstain but I never said that did I? I've never had a sexually unfulfilling relationship and wouldn't stay in one. In fact, the ones making the spiteful comments are the ones who seem to be in shit unfulfilling relationships. Bitterness maybe?

I once dated this 6'5" rugby build type guy...
Im small only 5'2" so I was a bit frightened to sleep with him thinking his dick would be as massive as the rest of him but it was TINY not like two inches max. I feel so bad about this but it freaked me out I couldn't get into it at all and faked illness to get out of there. I feel so bad about what it must have done to his confidence but I was young and an idiot

I actually prefer smaller ones (and no this isn't some sort of weird "boast" implying I have a petite fanny as I don't). I would hate to be with someone with a big one.

However I can't get worried about the "poor men" here because men are in general far more shallow and constantly criticise women's appearances.

As if men don't comment among themselves on women's in a graphic and derogatory way - in fact they seem more likely to do so to the woman's face

This.