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I just added myself to fb chat with dh and ow

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MissMarpleMyArse · 19/09/2018 21:15

I'm fucking fuming. I posted recently
About dh's suspect WhatsApp activity. It all stopped but I have been keeping an eye on his phone. This afternoon when he went to the toilet I clicked his apps and saw messenger was open. I've just had the chance to snoop again while he's in the shower and found messages between him and our friend (we aren't that close with her. - well I'm not). Loads of sexual stuff. I just added myself to the conversation and said 'wow I don't see that coming'
I'm upstairs now. Neither of them have read it yet.

OP posts:
ResistanceIsNecessary · 19/09/2018 21:16

Bloody hell. Hope you are OK.

Have you got friends or family IRL that you can talk to?

Faster · 19/09/2018 21:17

Holy shit op. That is brave. You holding up ok?

Butterymuffin · 19/09/2018 21:18

Can you screenshot as well for back up?

What are you going to do now? Are you in the house with him?

Tildero · 19/09/2018 21:18

Oh that’s awful. I hope your ok.

Helpimfalling · 19/09/2018 21:18

Omg darling how are you so calm!! Big hug

Notacluewhatthisis · 19/09/2018 21:18

I have a friend who did this. Sat upstairs and interrupted their messaging.

Hope you are ok. Flowers

Butterymuffin · 19/09/2018 21:18

They've both been shits, by the way.

Helpimfalling · 19/09/2018 21:18

Screenshot and send it to yourself before they start back pedalling

PotteringAlong · 19/09/2018 21:18

Heck.

Jaxtellerswife · 19/09/2018 21:19

I'm really bloody sorry, what arseholes!

TheQueef · 19/09/2018 21:19

Aw fucking hell.

Who else is at home?

ballsdeep · 19/09/2018 21:19

I bet they didn't see that coming 😋 hope you're ok xx

doodlejump1980 · 19/09/2018 21:19

Wow! You go! See how’s he wriggles out of it. Flowers

troodiedoo · 19/09/2018 21:19

oh Jesus. poor you Flowers

LorelaiRoryEmily · 19/09/2018 21:19

Oh that’s awful. Hope you’re ok

DeloresJaneUmbridge · 19/09/2018 21:19

So sorry OP, this is awful Sad

Have you got people around who can support you?

KatnissMellark · 19/09/2018 21:20

Sorry OP. Ballsy!

LuluBellaBlue · 19/09/2018 21:20

Well done for calling th pair of them out!

WasFatNowThin · 19/09/2018 21:20

Well done, you've got guts! X

whereisthatpenguinfrom · 19/09/2018 21:20

Screenshot OP

Doingreat · 19/09/2018 21:21

They are total shits op.

Hope you're ok

TheVanguardSix · 19/09/2018 21:21
Flowers
TomHardysNextWife · 19/09/2018 21:21

Does she have a husband you can add in too??!?

Well done you.

IWannaSeeHowItEnds · 19/09/2018 21:22

What a pair of shits. Bad enough that he is cheating, but to do so with someone you know is beyond skanky.

tinydancer88 · 19/09/2018 21:22

Blimey, quite impressed by your head-on approach - hope you're OK, what a horrid thing to find.

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