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I just added myself to fb chat with dh and ow

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MissMarpleMyArse · 19/09/2018 21:15

I'm fucking fuming. I posted recently
About dh's suspect WhatsApp activity. It all stopped but I have been keeping an eye on his phone. This afternoon when he went to the toilet I clicked his apps and saw messenger was open. I've just had the chance to snoop again while he's in the shower and found messages between him and our friend (we aren't that close with her. - well I'm not). Loads of sexual stuff. I just added myself to the conversation and said 'wow I don't see that coming'
I'm upstairs now. Neither of them have read it yet.

OP posts:
MayhemandMadness01 · 19/09/2018 21:33

Bloody hell, well done you

QforCucumber · 19/09/2018 21:33

Oh wow. I don't even know you but i feel so proud of you right now!

BirdieInTheHand · 19/09/2018 21:34

Good on you for calling them out!

user1467718508 · 19/09/2018 21:35
Flowers
Lillygolightly · 19/09/2018 21:35

Well they won’t have seen that coming either.

Hope you ok OP Flowers

Danceintherain2018 · 19/09/2018 21:35

Sounds horrible op. Have they responded?

puguin86 · 19/09/2018 21:35

What a pair of knobs !!!

Danceintherain2018 · 19/09/2018 21:35

Horrible for you op*

StormcloakNord · 19/09/2018 21:36

This is incredible. Go OP!

Kahlua4me · 19/09/2018 21:37

Hope you are ok and are safe at home. Have you got real life support?

StopPOP · 19/09/2018 21:37

Ye Gads. Hope you're ok Flowers

Isadora2007 · 19/09/2018 21:37

What a response from you... well done for keeping it classy. Get a screen shot and a good lawyer.

Lauren0rder · 19/09/2018 21:37

Wow that’s brave......hope you are ok

sexnotgender · 19/09/2018 21:38

You are a legend.

Hope you’re holding up ok, you must be in turmoil!

Namechangeforthiscancershit · 19/09/2018 21:39

Wow! Well they can’t wriggle out of that can they?

hiddeneverything · 19/09/2018 21:39

Ooft poor you. Stay strong xx

YourVagesty · 19/09/2018 21:39

Well done OP Flowers

Alevel · 19/09/2018 21:39

Good for you. Thanks

sadnessin · 19/09/2018 21:39

Omg that's the type of thing I would DREAM about doing but wouldn't have the guts. Well done Op

RollerJed · 19/09/2018 21:40

What a pair of arseholes. I think you've handled it well so far!

namechanger0987 · 19/09/2018 21:41

Oh no! What a dick

topsy2tails · 19/09/2018 21:42

Bloody star!!!! X

hamzilla · 19/09/2018 21:42

Assuming they've now read it and you're dealing with the fall out. Hope you are okay OP Thanks

Troels · 19/09/2018 21:42

Are you OK MissMarple I bet they never saw that coming either.

MrsDc7 · 19/09/2018 21:42

Good for you... what arseholes

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