I just added myself to fb chat with dh and ow

[MissMarpleMyArse]

I'm fucking fuming. I posted recently
About dh's suspect WhatsApp activity. It all stopped but I have been keeping an eye on his phone. This afternoon when he went to the toilet I clicked his apps and saw messenger was open. I've just had the chance to snoop again while he's in the shower and found messages between him and our friend (we aren't that close with her. - well I'm not). Loads of sexual stuff. I just added myself to the conversation and said 'wow I don't see that coming'
I'm upstairs now. Neither of them have read it yet.

Let’s guess what excuses they will come up with...

“Nothing actually happened between us”

“I’ve been feeling a bit lonely recently”

Wow well done you. 💐 good suggestion from Pp re her husband /other half to add him in too.

Hope your ok op.

Good on you! Hope they both realise what terrible people they are. I'd screen shot it for your own sanity.

Good on you OP for sending that, as PP said screenshot what you can !!! So sorry that he's been an absolute fuckwit, stay strong !!!

I take my hat off to you OP. Is there anywhere you can take yourself off to for head space when the shit hits the fan?

Sorry not had a chance to read the many messages, will do soon. She's read it. He's still in the bathroom. Having 'a slow wank thinking about her' apparently.

Also hoping you are ok OP

Hope you're ok. We're here for you. Stay strong and don't let him blame you for looking at his phone.

Well done OP! He is going to shit himself when he sees, the prick.

Absolutel wankers. Give them both hell but look after yourself

Disgusting.

So sorry OP.

'a slow wank thinking about her'

Your message may spoil that vibe...

10/10 for a brilliant way to deal with it. I hope you're ok and I pray for peace in your life soon.

What a couple of dickheads. Well done for the head on approach.

I feel sick. Hopefully he will very soon too.

Aww god op I'm so so sorry you must feel sick with your heart in your mouth I've been there in April bless you I hope your strong and I know it's easier said then done

Your with us so your alrite

Good God, you poor thing. You're very brave, OP. Stay strong

Omg. Is he messaging her from the bog.

Of course you do. And you’re about to give him the shock of his life, but he deserves it.

Oh my goodness
Well done OP

I imagine his slow wank has turned into a quick shit! Well done, OP.

She will be beside herself - do expect him to make out that this is your fault OP, the script is always the bloody same 😡 I hope you are OK x x

Fucking hell.

I’m sorry, it must be awful for you. You know what he is really like now. Look after yourself

Oh my days

Has he come down now?