I just added myself to fb chat with dh and ow

[MissMarpleMyArse]

I'm fucking fuming. I posted recently
About dh's suspect WhatsApp activity. It all stopped but I have been keeping an eye on his phone. This afternoon when he went to the toilet I clicked his apps and saw messenger was open. I've just had the chance to snoop again while he's in the shower and found messages between him and our friend (we aren't that close with her. - well I'm not). Loads of sexual stuff. I just added myself to the conversation and said 'wow I don't see that coming'
I'm upstairs now. Neither of them have read it yet.

I'm so sorry, but a huge well done to you. Xx

Omg what’s happening next?
v sorry OP

Oh that’s awful, I’m sorry

very brave OP. Hope you give him what for.

I feel for you so much right now. I really hope you are okay.

I remember the terrible feeling of discovering an affair. At the moment everything will feel surreal; you will be in shock and have adrenaline to keep you going. This will wear off at some point and it will feel very overwhelming, but it will get better, I promise.

Please look after yourself and keep posting on here for support.

Well done you for being so forthcoming even if it's in terrible circumstances

Has he surfaced yet?

That's horrible op obviously you need to take time to get your head together and decide what you want but screen shot all the messages so you have proof incase you want/need it later

Something is going to hit the fan 💩

I agree with the pp. screen shot it.

I am sure he will be full of excuses

I really admire your strength, hope your ok

Woah. Ballsy move. Wonder what theirs will be?

Hope you’re okay.

Bless you, how vile of them.

Engaging will sap your energy, he will make excuses, do you have any real life support?

What a pair of assholes!

I 100%admore.you OP! The pair of cheating wankers will be shitting themselves, please screenshot what they've been posting so they can't backtrack and deny all. I am very sorry you're dealing with this

Well done. Agee to screenshot as much as you can and add in her partner.

Well done! I couldn't be so restrained but effective.

pair of shits

Hope you're ok, OP.

well done for holding up and facing up to them!!

Can you go out for a bit? Round to a friends? I don’t think I’d like to be in when he reads it.....but I’m not very good at confrontation. Hope you’re ok.

Oh!

Well done, I hope they sh*t themselves when they see it.

Well done OP. Screenshot everything and expect them to backpedal.

Be kind to yourself x