I just added myself to fb chat with dh and ow

[MissMarpleMyArse]

I'm fucking fuming. I posted recently
About dh's suspect WhatsApp activity. It all stopped but I have been keeping an eye on his phone. This afternoon when he went to the toilet I clicked his apps and saw messenger was open. I've just had the chance to snoop again while he's in the shower and found messages between him and our friend (we aren't that close with her. - well I'm not). Loads of sexual stuff. I just added myself to the conversation and said 'wow I don't see that coming'
I'm upstairs now. Neither of them have read it yet.

Oh OP, I'm sorry.

Wipe the floor with the pair of them.

Well done OP, keep us updated. What a pair of shits.

well done thats amazing!!!

How horrible

Sorry this is happening but well done you!

Op seriously you are a rock star

When he comes downstairs I'd be asking if he enjoyed his slow wank.

But hats off to you op for how you've handled it. I'm so sorry that your husband is such a shit. Will you ask him to leave?

Hold your head up high. You got this 👍

So sorry though, the grubby little shits

Brilliant response, you're a role model 💐
Have you decided on your next steps?

I've posted three times but screen shot so he don't rewrite the fucking scrip the Cunt

Fucking awful situation, but an admirable way to deal with it OP.

I'm so sorry for what shits they are and I wish you all the best

OP you are a saint, Id have been tempted to interrupt his ‘slow wank’ with a pair of scissors! Bastards!

Jesus op i hope your okay

You poor thing. It’s awful. I remember doing similar, messaged Ex when I found he’d been messaging another woman. I was shaking all over seeing the messages. But it made it very real.

Ex deleted everything and minimised it later. Yours might do the same.

I wish I’d left there and then. The adrenaline can serve a purpose. Do you have kids? Is it rented? If it’s rented and no kids I’d leave if you can go somewhere. You’ll be in control.

Or take a bit of time, but don’t drift back in with him. He will always do this then.

I’m so sorry OP. Vile shits, the pair of them.

Op, I'm so sorry this is happening to you, what a disgusting pair of arseholes the people are.

But you? You are fucking fantastic! Well done 😘😘

Well done. Take screen shots as there will be lots of back pedalling...,
Can you call a friend to come over and be with you?

Well done. Hope you're ok

Can you go to the vathroom and interrupt him?

Keep the strength you found to send that. Give them hell and get him the heck out of your home.

Whilst he’s wanking it may be worth syphoning off important docs; payslips, pension, savings. Anything you can find.

good on you!

I hope his dick falls off. I've been there, OP, and I sympathise. Awful feeling, having the rug pulled out from under you. Sending love and strength xx

Blimey well done!!

Thinking of you OP. I’m sure you’re going through so much right now. You’ve shown strength though - you’ll get through this.