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I just added myself to fb chat with dh and ow

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MissMarpleMyArse · 19/09/2018 21:15

I'm fucking fuming. I posted recently
About dh's suspect WhatsApp activity. It all stopped but I have been keeping an eye on his phone. This afternoon when he went to the toilet I clicked his apps and saw messenger was open. I've just had the chance to snoop again while he's in the shower and found messages between him and our friend (we aren't that close with her. - well I'm not). Loads of sexual stuff. I just added myself to the conversation and said 'wow I don't see that coming'
I'm upstairs now. Neither of them have read it yet.

OP posts:
Alwa · 19/09/2018 21:47

Posted too soon, you're so calm. Take care of yourself x

RyderWhiteSwan · 19/09/2018 21:48

Hope you're safe Flowers

Littlejayx · 19/09/2018 21:48

You have a good pair of kahunas! Go you!

greyspottedgoose · 19/09/2018 21:48

How awful, I hope you have someone you can talk to in real life that must be a lot to take in

Trialsmum · 19/09/2018 21:48

Ouch! Hope you’re ok OP 😢

Strawberrybelly · 19/09/2018 21:48

He's going to have a shock when he gets out of the shower. I hope you're ok though Miss, they are both massive shit bags.

FunSponges · 19/09/2018 21:48

Wow, well done for acting OP. I bet OW shit herself when she read it. Can she contact him directly and warn him?

BumpInTheOven · 19/09/2018 21:49

Hope you're ok OP... what a fucking douche x

TokenGinger · 19/09/2018 21:49

Genius, OP!

YouOKHun · 19/09/2018 21:49

I’m very sorry OP, what a pair of dispicable shits. I do admire your style though. Flowers

Nanna50 · 19/09/2018 21:49

Wow OP I would follow that up by interrupting him in the bathroom, the bastard. I hope you are ok as brave as you are it’s going to be difficult for you. Flowers

Evianliveyoung1 · 19/09/2018 21:50
Shock
MagentaRocks · 19/09/2018 21:50

Hope you have some RL support op.

beautyadoration · 19/09/2018 21:50
Flowers
Petalflowers · 19/09/2018 21:50

Wow, must admit, your boldness made me smile.

Looking forward to hearing the outcome.

Atlantea · 19/09/2018 21:50

oh my god - what an arsehole!

Petalflowers · 19/09/2018 21:50

Hope you are okay.

Cardiganandcuppa · 19/09/2018 21:50

Wow, what a pair of cunts.

You, on the other hand OP, sound brilliant. It might take a while to sort out the fallout but youre going to be just FINE.

31GoingOn13 · 19/09/2018 21:50

You go girl. They both deserve to be called out. Hope they feel like utter shit after that. Remember karma is a b*tch and they will both get what’s coming to them soon. Hugs

AnchorDownDeepBreath · 19/09/2018 21:51

I'd have to ask him how his wank was; if he comes out before he's read it...

Look after yourself, OP. I'm really sorry this has happened Thanks

Wendigowoman · 19/09/2018 21:51
Wine
billybagpuss · 19/09/2018 21:51

Hope you’re ok

Palegreenstars · 19/09/2018 21:51

Hope you are ok

Eatmycheese · 19/09/2018 21:51

God how bloody despicable, but I have to say your response to discovering it is, well frankly fabulous.

I so want you to carry on kicking his sorry sordid hideous arse

Theimpossiblegirl · 19/09/2018 21:51

Good for you. Hope you're ok.

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