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Original poster

I have just found out DH wees sitting down and it has changed the view I have of him

324 replies

MarriedToASittingPisser · 05/03/2007 14:58

He seems childlike now. I cannot feel lust for a man who pees sitting down. Is that peculiar? Do your other halves do this?

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Lullabyloo · 05/03/2007 14:59

snigger............sorry.....

IntergalacticWalrus · 05/03/2007 15:00

It's better he sits down rather trhan pissing on the sEAT/FLOOR IMHO

Pruni · 05/03/2007 15:00

Message withdrawn

fryalot · 05/03/2007 15:00

my dp doesn't, but we know a man who does. The same man has to be totally naked to poo (like the bloke on seinfeld)

northerner · 05/03/2007 15:00

My dh sits to pee. His Fther taught him to do this to avoid pissing on teh seat/floor.

JodieG1 · 05/03/2007 15:00

Mine stands up.

Whoooosh · 05/03/2007 15:00

Oh I would actively encourage it!

Had a boyfriend once with a willy like a watering can rose and the mess was awful.
How lovely to have it all contained

zippitippitoes · 05/03/2007 15:00

poor man

earlgrey · 05/03/2007 15:01

NO! No! Nooooooooo!!!!

Twinkie1 · 05/03/2007 15:02

DH only sits down for his last wee of the day - find it a bit sad and disgusting - have told him that real man pee standing up and he has offered to prove he is a real man!!!

TinkieWinkie · 05/03/2007 15:02

Less mess IMO!

Does it really matter either way?!

Greensleeves · 05/03/2007 15:02

How can you have not known?

PinkTulips · 05/03/2007 15:03

you mean you've never seen him pee?! how long have you been married? dp doesn't even close the doorof the bathroom!

my dad asits down to pee because he got sick of being yelled at for drips everywhere, pmsl!

fryalot · 05/03/2007 15:03

how have you just found out?

TrinityRhino · 05/03/2007 15:03

my dh does this but it's borne from being on submarines for years and years they have only a couple of urinals for like 120 men and lots of loos so easier just to sit down

Original poster
MarriedToASittingPisser · 05/03/2007 15:03

I really feel odd about it. It's like it's two. Or a woman. I can't find that attractive.

OP posts:
IntergalacticWalrus · 05/03/2007 15:04

how does it make him less of a man anyway?

TrinityRhino · 05/03/2007 15:04
Hmm
HuwEdwards · 05/03/2007 15:05

hahahahahahaha

Original poster
MarriedToASittingPisser · 05/03/2007 15:05

Sorry, it's like he's two. As I say, this has thrown me.

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NappiesGalore · 05/03/2007 15:06

id be sweating about what else you dont know about him, if i were you... did you have a relationship before getting married?? how people get married without knowing each other is beyond me...

Greensleeves · 05/03/2007 15:06

Is this a spoof?

doggiesayswoof · 05/03/2007 15:07

Is this a piss take?
How long have you been together?
How did you not know?

PrettyCandles · 05/03/2007 15:07

I don't think I'd be bothered by this. In fact, I know that dh pees sitting down under certain circumstances and I don't see it as a big deal. Anyway, I think that peeing standing up is more because they can than because they need to.

clumsymum · 05/03/2007 15:07

God you are WEIRD.

My dh sits to pee at home (I don't know nor care either way what he does elsewhere) but it has NO reflection at all on his manhood, masculinity or anything else.

I encourage ds (now 7) always to sit, because it's much less messy. Annoys me when he's been to stay with my BIL, cos we have to start over.

But, opening poster, I think YOU have a very strange psychology if your dh's peeing position bothers you.