Onit's still on it! Thread 3

[onitlikeacarbonnet]

Hello to anyone who's still here

Links to previous threads.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/2658829-Anyone-up-DH-is-leaving-me

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/2690159-Anyone-up-DH-is-leaving-me-follow-up-thread-Onits-on-it

I'm carrying on with this as I'm certain I'd be in a much unhappier state without the support I've received here.
This has become my journal of sorts and I hope it's something I can look back on in time to see how far I've come.
I also hope it helps to document the truth of my situation for the future and perhaps, if read by others, will offer help and hope to them too.

[nigelsbigface]

Yeeeeah!! She's back!!
Love it. You've done amazingly today!!
Aces!!

[onitlikeacarbonnet]

Lost a post but suffice to say I would happily have you all round for gin and cake . Maybe when the divorce goes through.
I told my friends, when that happens, I want a hen party. Mine was shit. Both my bridesmaids were ill/pregnant in the run up to my wedding so I organised it myself. But I didn't get the 'L' plates or the veil or the willie shaped straws or the stripper and, goddamn it, I want all that shit now! And I want all my friends to come. And you are all my friends.

I had an email from LCB as a "follow up" to mediation. I'll need to answer it but I'll do it on Sunday.

Got shitloads to do for dd's party on Saturday but I'm sitting here in a bit of a blissed out state.
Is it wrong that I took a day off from normal life to stay in bed all day with BF? Even though I still have tons of stuff to do for the weekend.
He left before the dc came back from LCBs and, while putting them to bed, it dawned on me that LCB gave me 20 years of lies and 2 amazing dc.
BF has given me 4 months of attention and great sex.
I'm aware there's not a comparison there and I'm not sure it'll last. There's lots of things that make it complicated. But, for now, it's going well. He says he adores me. I guess it remains to be seen if it works out.

Anyway, I must attempt to get on with party bag stuffing.
Have a good weekend everyone

[Mix56]

What is wrong with enjoying your life Onit ? you are entitled to as much happiness as you can grab, wherever that comes from.

[nigelsbigface]

Good in you having a day off hell, take a couple dude! You deserve it!

[Fuzzywuzzywasawoman42]

You're not 'on it' onit...you own it !!

I'm so very proud of you girlfriend.

Here's to the rest of your life

[ChanandlerBongsNeighbour]

Onit you astound me with your true grit and determination and pure strength! I always check back and think of you often.

I am hoping (if you still feel the benefit) that you'll think about starting a(nother) follow on thread as this one is nearly at capacity. You give me strength and hope for the future.

[onitlikeacarbonnet]

Hey everyone

I'm currently trying to ignore the 4 dc upstairs. Apparently they call it a sleepover

Anyway, I hadn't realised I was nearing the end of this thread (thanks Chanandler) so I'm off to think of a name for another one and I'll be back to post a link.

[onitlikeacarbonnet]

New thread here. Number 4

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships?call=NewConversationPage

[onitlikeacarbonnet]

Thank you Chanandler

[onitlikeacarbonnet]

Sorry! Try this one x

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/2957256-Onits-owning-it-Or-at-least-has-an-agreement-in-principle-for-a-mortgage-on-it