Sorry this might be long. Don't want to drip feed and I'm essentially ranting, so bear with me
Ds got recognised at school on Tuesday for his good behaviour/effort. I found this out when I was collecting him and dd early to go to the dentist and his teacher came and spoke to me. Ds told me the whole school had congratulated him at a get together that day.
I'm obviously very proud of him and made a fuss of him on the way to the dentist.
The appointment was not the most successful as he wet himself in the chair (poor soul couldn't say anything because they were painting some stuff on his teeth). Anyway, a stressful time.
I know one of the dental nurses there so she watched both DC while I ran out to grab a change of clothes from local shop. Dd was having a treatment too which didn't go well either as, when I returned 10 mins later, she was crying. A lot. Apparently it didn't taste nice. So I have 2 traumatised DC to dress, get home, homework, feed, bath, bed etc. Dd has a bad cold too so lots of coughing to go with the crying which didn't really stop till we got home and fed half an hour later.
We've had a week of early waking. I've had one or both in with me everyday from as early as 3am on tuesday to 5am this morning. After they've gone to bed all week I've been doing bare minimum then heading to bed myself.
When I checked school bags on Wednesday afternoon, there were 2 letters in ds's. One for me and one for LCB. I opened mine and it was a letter confirming ds's achievement. DC are picked up by LCB on Thursday after school so I left his letter in the bag. As we'd had a stressful afternoon the day before I'd said "no homework" and we went upstairs to play till teatime. Then the usual bedtime routine minus Bath as I was aiming early for all of us due to 5am start.
Thursday there was an event at school. LCB is on the parent council and was helping organise. I agreed to take them home early and give them tea to help him out. I had to get them changed straight after tea to go back to school at 6 for said event. When we got home at 6.45 my dsis was coming to babysit as I was going to my book club. I did not check school bags other than to put snack pots/water bottles at the sink.
Anyway, today I went to assembly as I thought ds might get pupil of the week. As it turned out he didn't but Dd did for a different thing in her class . She got a certificate.
When school finished (half day Friday here) we came home, dumped bags and went straight out to meet friends. Afterwards we were home for maybe an hour before I was dropping the with LCB. I asked the DC to check their bags for anything that needed washed etc and ds handed me a letter about his teacher leaving. He's p3 (year 2) and has had 9 teachers!! I took a pic of the letter and sent it to LCB. We had a bit of discussion about talking to the head.
I was trying to give them snacks and drinks and when I found dd's certificate I stuck it up on our wall. I reminded her to tell daddy about it later and carried on with dishes, packing clothes for them etc. Then after a bit of tv for them we left for LCBs to drop them off.
Tonight I've had a series of snotty texts about not letting him know about the dcs achievements this week. He'd like to have congratulated them immediately.
I replied asking did he not get the letter that was in ds's bag. No, he didn't have time to check on Thursday as he had the thing at school. I said I wasn't aware he hadn't received the letter, so didn't know he didn't know.
Now I didn't ask DC but ds has not stopped talking about his thing this week and dd was seeing LCB today, so I didn't text him to tell him. Apparently, letting his DC share their news with him personally isn't right. I should've texted him or got them to call him straight away
I did try explaining that we're busy everyday after school and I didn't know he hadn't got the letter.
I will make sure I take a photo of Every. Single. Thing. That comes home from school from now on. And I mean everything.
Or am I being petty again?
The thing is I usually would've taken a photo (like I did with the teacher letter) but he had one of his own. I'm not his fucking secretary