Sorry been running around all day.
What Happened on Onits Date...
Got there early, I had booked a room in the pub we were meeting in (didn't tell him) so checked in, dumped a change of clothes etc then went to sit in the bar and wait.
Had a drink to calm my nerves but I was ok amazingly.
No phone signal and no wifi so I was a bit worried but managed to send something to my pals eventually.
I was in the bar all by myself. I felt pretty exposed (overdressed) but I was really early to avoid him knowing I had a room, so my own fault.
I saw him through the window as he crossed the road and we both smiled at each other.
He walked in, gave me a hug and asked if he could kiss me. So we had a quick kiss. No snogging.
He went to get a drink and when he sat down he took my hand, we chatted quite easily and he just kept looking into my eyes.
I felt comfortable with him almost right away. He put his arm round me and pulled me close still holding my hand. He
We just chatted for a bit.
He kept looking at me really intensely then he said he really wanted to kiss me. So we kissed. Nothing obscene or anything. There were a few other punters in the bar by now.
He kept saying how gorgeous I was
and was just really sweet.
And a little bit saucy too. (Whispered in my ear some of the things we'd chatted about online).
When we'd finished our drinks, we went to sit in his car (I know!!! I'm not 17 but, as far as he was aware, it was our only way to be alone)
After a little time (and once the windows had steamed up a bit
) I asked him what he'd do if I told him I had a room.
He said he wanted to hold me (awww) so I showed him the key and said he was welcome to come back if he wanted.
There was a bit of xrated stuff then we fell asleep for a few hours woke up very early and had another hour or so before my alarm.
He had to leave to be home for his dc. So he reluctantly got dressed and left.
After a half hour or so, I eventually got up, had a shower, sorted myself out and left too.
We've been chatting online on and off today trying to arrange another date.
It's going to be difficult. He lives a hundred miles away and has his dc the weekend mine are with LCB.
But if it fizzles out I think I'll be ok. If it lasts a bit, that'd be good too.
I've never had a man look at me the way he did. Straight in the eye like that.
I liked it.
He was also very attentive (iykwim
)
If you have any questions, ask away!
I may or may not answer.