Onit's still on it! Thread 3

[onitlikeacarbonnet]

Hello to anyone who's still here

Links to previous threads.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/2658829-Anyone-up-DH-is-leaving-me

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/2690159-Anyone-up-DH-is-leaving-me-follow-up-thread-Onits-on-it

I'm carrying on with this as I'm certain I'd be in a much unhappier state without the support I've received here.
This has become my journal of sorts and I hope it's something I can look back on in time to see how far I've come.
I also hope it helps to document the truth of my situation for the future and perhaps, if read by others, will offer help and hope to them too.

You're sounding so upbeat Onit and its fabulous to read.

Everyone likes a compliment! And it isn't at all shallow when you've been made to feel the way you have by a LCB.

Agree with nigel - you will be happier and healthier for getting away from this horrible excuse for a human.

Just love to read your latest updates regarding your positivity/self confidence! The only way is up!

I think I might have might have a date!!!
On Thursday!!!
I am sooooo nervous.

Whoop!!
Omg! What are you going to wear??!!

I am sooooo nervous

You and the rest of us!!!!!!

runs away shrieking in excitement like a schoolgirl

Description please! Is it hot and heavy guy?

Squeal!

I bought a dress last week which will have to do. It's faux leather. Might be a little short but I will wear thick tights and boots.

I am bricking it

What if he's a psycho?!?
The chat has been very suggestive and there is a possibility of sex!!
I realise that's incredibly slutty of me but I haven't had any in well over a year and I'm frankly like a coiled spring since chatting to this bloke

My friends will know where I am at all times and I'll get them to check in with me periodically.
But I'm travelling a fair distance to meet him and will have to drive home after so no ditch courage either.

Help!!!!!

*dutch courage

No Dutch courage is both a bold and good move for the first date I think you'll be fab though, based on how brilliant and lovely you come across here.

The leather dress sounds awesome! And will probably ratchet up the chances of sex even more!

This is so exciting!

Re being a psycho - if you're in a bar (or similar) and your friends know where you are then it's all good, esp if you're not drinking.

Such brilliant news!

OMG !!! Onit, you are such a brave woman !

OMG Onit, so so excited for you , you will look amazing, the dress sounds lovely.
Yes you must be bricking it, but just get out there and try to enjoy it 😃
I'm so happy for you,
Your mates know where you are so try to relax ( easy to say but so hard to do 😂)
You go out and have a fab time, you so deserve it ,
💗💅💄👠🍷

Thanks everyone!
I'll keep you updated

How bloody fabulous!!!! So pleased! The dress sounds fab.

Just a thought though, would you be going to his place for sex?

Woohoo how exciting!!! Link to dress??

No Agatha
I'm thinking I'll book a hotel room. Not that I'll be able to stay in it as I need to be home for the dc in the morning.
I want to be in control of the situation and having somewhere to go just in case, seems sensible.

chanandler here's the dress
www.oasis-stores.com/gb/clothing/dresses/faux-leather-shift-dress/060409.html?dwvar_060409_color=01&gclid=CKrfn5CHtNICFQMM0wodL_ADlg

Definitely sensible onit. Didn't want to sound negative, but well just a bit worried. Hope you have a fabulous date .

Love the dress!

Love the dress 👗 Onit , fantastic choice,
So excited for you 😘😘😘

What if he's a psycho?!?

So what if he is? Its not as if you dont know how to deal with them.

And the dress is gorgeous!!!!!

Is anyone else sitting laughing hysterically at these last few posts from Onit?

Crackin frock.
I quite fancy you onit, never mind this boy

I quite fancy you onit, never mind this boy gringrin

It was the tights and boots that got me going.

So happy for you Onit! Enjoy yourself and go on lots of dates with different people! Enjoy the attention and keep yourself happy!