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Kicked him out this morning. Hand hold please.

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EndOfLongTether · 18/10/2016 11:05

Long term poster (from before the Moldies saga) namechanged because there are friends on here who know my regular NN.

DH has been drinking in binges for a very long time. I suffered it for years and tried to keep a normal facade for the benefit of DC, but now the oldest understands what is going on. After last night when he showed up drunk, aggressed her, then banged the door and went out without a word, she said "Mummy, I don't feel good in this house anymore. I never know if he will come home like this in the evening" Sad He stumbled home at 5 AM.

I woke him up earlier and told him to pack a bag and leave. He was still laughing and said I was exaggerating, it was all a bit of fun. It's not fun at all for me & DC. He left. I don't know if he took a bag.

I'm feeling wobbly.

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Fender1 · 01/11/2016 10:25

How did your talk go yesterday Endof...? Been thinking of you all day

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ThumbWitchesAbroad · 01/11/2016 14:42

Yes, me too - how are you, Endof? Thanks

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