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[Sillybillywilly]

If your 'd'p whipped you with a tea towel, threw a glass of water at you and threw and garden chair at you (well not at 'in your direction') would you consider this domestic abuse?

I think i will stay at my mums, not got to his mums. Called woman's aid but they were busy so I left my name and number hopefully they will call back.
Going to go to the council on Monday and see if there's anyway they can help me.

Good ideas there. His mum might be a nice lady but she has no business telling you his shady antics. He is using your money to get a fucking tattoo and you have nothing from him for your dd ?

What a prick. Don't communicate with him, and don't gossip about him with his mum. He is feeding more mindfuckery to you through her. Cut it off.

I only found out because dd stayed at mil last night, I phoned this morning to find out when she wanted to bring her back or did ex want to spend time with her and she no as he going to get a tattoo this afternoon! She also said he has had his dd fix today. Dd fix??!! She is HIS daughter not some one else's child that it's nice to see for a while then give back when he is done!

How are things going?

Things are ok, plodding along at my mums, I am planning on staying here for now and saving as much as I can.

Ex has been really quiet, he had dd for a few hours today while I was at work, but apart from that I haven't heard from him.

Going to go to my local sure start tomorrow and get details of freedom programme in the area, I know the centre used to run it but I'm not sure they still do.

Things are no where near perfect, but I'm feeling more optimistic than I was a week ago

Thank you for asking

Keep going, love x

Yep, surely things can't get any worse, the only way is up!

too right