how many people here dont have an orgasm through penatration?

[Londonlost]

Just that really. Wondering if it is common not to? Thanks

It's more common not to have an orgasm through penetration I thought.

As I dont , bit embarrassed

Thanks westeast, didn't know that

Not me.

i used to, not so much these days though.

westeast is right though, i think a majority don't, or find it difficult, to orgasm JUST through penetration.

It's an evolutionary design fault that seems to have completely bypassed the awareness of all the male evolutionary biologists.

Maybe that's why humans learned to walk upright and use baby slings - to free up the hands - because the other sex was so shit.

Most women don't.

at the ripe age of 50, I can say that I never, ever have despite trying different positions!

Didn't realise that. Boyfriend making me feel like im the exception

...although according to dh , all his previous girlfriends did

well i'd suggest to your boyfriend that if he can't satisfy you he needs to alter his technique

it isn't you with the problem, it's him!

nothing to be embarrassed about Londonlost; you are NOT the exception and if your boyfriend is trying to make you feel bad about this, i.e I am such a good lovaaairr, and it is all your fault" etc etc, then you have my permission to stand on the end of his cock

Don't be embarrassed! Jeez what a prick to make you feel like that! It happens once in a blue moon for me, when my pelvis is aligned at some mythical angle, the moon is in the house of Saturn and I've had a boat load of stimulation!

I can't, the majority of my friends can't.

Id say any man who says all his other sexual partners could was either lied to or hasn't had any others

Gatekeeper. I think all his previous girlfriends could well have been faking. Although he'll never believe that.

I've never had an orgasm full stop. Not once. In 15yrs of sexual activity.

I have once or twice but it is most definetely not a regular occurrence! If your fella is trying to make you feel bad about not having an orgasm you need to tell him to fix up takes two to tango

raxa :-O really?

you need to figure out what makes it happen by yourself, then let your partner know just how you like it.... go... do it now!

I do, but statistically it's not the majority. I believe it's about 35% who can orgasm through penetration alone. DH was shocked when he found out that I could orgasm through intercourse, as he'd read lots of stuff saying that women never did.

yep, me. Only through, erm, other activities :o

I can't. No problem with clitoral stimulation though. I always assumed that many women who claimed that they could orgasm through penetration were in fact getting their clitoris stimulated at the same time as having penetrative sex - through position or deliberately.

I do. But didn't before children.

It's a horse of a rather different colour indeed.

I have both, but only with one man have i had the two together. I think it nust take a particular type of man to achieve that!

Doesn't take much either I must be the lazy lovers dream!!

Never. In any way shape or form. I've been sexually active for 16 years now and it's not happened.

I can't - apparently all of DH's previous partners could. It's not him - I couldn't with my previous partners either. Only one was "disgusted" by my "helping myself" he was an arsehole anyway - most have enjoyed it