how many people here dont have an orgasm through penatration?

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Just that really. Wondering if it is common not to? Thanks

And if he's making you feel bad about something that is totally normal then he's a twit.

witchway my DP positively loves it when I lend a hand :D

Yes, I can through stimulation but not otherwise. Encouraging reading your posts, thanks

WestEast and mine

have a go at that

i don't know why so many men are so obsessed with making women orgasm only through piv sex
is there not far more to it than that??
instead of moaning that it doesn't work for you they should be figuring out what DOES work and enjoying it!

weird

My DP said he felt amazing that he'd been able to make me orgasm through penetration as it's a difficult thing to do, he likened it to passing his driving test! Plus it felt rather nice for him apparently :)

oh i can understand enjoying it IF it happens... just not the whole "if you can't get off on this there is something wrong with you" attitude

Ah right. Completely agree with you there!

I have once.

I can. But never have with a man, iyswim. I would need a good deal of alone time and need to concentrate on working muscles etc. I think when I have (with a man) it's actually because of because a small amount of clitoral stimulation from position.

Cakey, I don't orgasm alone or with somebody. May as well rub my big toe for all the pleasure it brings. I'm missing a bit apparently.

I often can. But only ifI've been...ermmm...well stimulated beforehand

TBH your BF sounds a bit of a knob for implying there's something wrong with you

Yes, ha ha a little bit of a knob

Nope

I can with the right position, usually me on top so some clitoral stimulation involved. Never from doggy style but I enjoy that for different reasons

Only 2-3 times ever. Always with DP's hands though (he's very stubborn generous and won't give up until it happens!)

A friend of mine recently went on a sexual healing retreat. Apparently there are 7 different types of vagina and only one of those will achieve an orgasm due to penetration. Mine's not one of them. Although as others have pointed out, age and childbirth are clearly responsible for changing things.

Yes but with other stimulation at the same time, does that count? Not clitoral.

God no. Why don't you tell him all your previous boyfriends could climax without you touching their penis?

Nope. I nearly do, it feels bloody fantastic, but actually orgasming is only through clitoral stimulation - most of the time I need oral sex to come, sometimes fingers. I bloody love sex, but not convinced I ever have orgasmed through piv though have come close I just can't quite do it.

And boyfriend loves me giving a hand too :-D

Raxa, there was a woman on a C4 Ann summers programme who'd never orgasmed either. They designed a vibrator for her and after a few weeks she did. Have you tried many different kinds?

Many men want to believe a woman can orgasm through PIV sex alone, because then they don't actually have to do anything other than what they want.

Someone mentioned that 'It's an evolutionary design fault that seems to have completely bypassed the awareness of all the male evolutionary biologists.'

I recently read that it isn't a fault at all- if the vagina contained the same nerves as the clitoris, child birth would be even more agonising...

And no: I can come from oral, from hands and from penetration with the assistance of some clitoral touching but never from just penetration alone. Would love it if I could, but I think I am just not made that way!

Tbh I'd agree with him. Just say it is odd, did with the last one. Every. Fucking. Time.

It's him. He's stupid. It's LTB time...

I don't either. Ex OM used to stimulate me with his fingers and got very good at it.

After I climaxed I used to go on top and it felt lovely because I was already sensitive through having climaxed, although being on top wouldn't make me climax again.
Cant come through penetration at all.