how many people here dont have an orgasm through penatration?

[Londonlost]

Just that really. Wondering if it is common not to? Thanks

donmt like oral at all. not the idea of it, not giving or receiving it.

Actually, going back to the clitoris.... I think my orgasm is more "internal". It's all about the angle, the pressure, consistency and I'm not sure it's anything clitoral, at all. Showing my ignorance here but wasn't it Shere Hite who wrote about G Spot orgasm? Anyway, that's me. Damned fine it is too!

To me when one looks at it objectively it seems like an unnecessary risk when there are so many other sexual acts that don't put semen onto the cervix.

Look at it objectively?
Unnecessary risk?

Not what I tend to think about when I'm jumping my husband!

Eliza22 the understanding is that the clitoris is much larger than the visible bit. It extends internally and forms the g-spot.
This is where the whole issue of anatomy comes into it. If the clitoris and vagina are closer together, you are far more likely to experience g-spot pleasure and vaginal orgasm.

Never.

Yet current and all past lovers have insisted all their exes have, every time. Men refuse to believe women fake it and lie to their faces about it..

Physiologically, unless a man's body is angled to stimulate the clitoris during PV, it just isn't possible.

Fully, I'm sure it is possible, although difficult.

I've had an orgasm without any physical touching whatsoever when messaging my DP (yes, that's messaging, not massaging!)

I think if you're in the right frame of mind you can have an orgasm from stimulating your imagination as well as your bits.

LyndaCartersBigPants, aren't you the lucky mn who can come through teeth clinking too? What other tricks have you got up your sleeve?

Abstinence is the key. No sex for years, and it doesn't take much to get to the point when you actually have someone else is there.

Dolly, yep that's me! Think I'm a bit weird, I never used to be like this with XH, but I'm just lucky with my DP that I have met someone I completely click with.

If you've got any secret tips Lynda, we want them!

Nope.