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Shagged a really good friend on Friday night. Sigh....

209 replies

FrazzleRock · 06/01/2014 20:40

Why oh why oh why oh why oh why oh why oh why oh why?

It almost feels like I've had sex with a brother or something.

But I kind of liked it.
Did I say that out loud?

Oh MAN.

We've not spoken since. Awkward.

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fluffydressinggown · 06/01/2014 20:48

I'm married to the good friend I shagged.

Just saying ;)

ToniViolin · 06/01/2014 20:53

Liked it enough to do it again? Liked it enough to go for a pint and go 'that was alright' and get the next round in? Either way, fucking text him at least. In your scenario an 'are we cool?' would cover it for me :)

FrazzleRock · 06/01/2014 20:59

Well, we, erm, did do it before. about 9/10 years ago. Both of us then went on to have fairly long term relationships with other people. Both of us are single now.

Yeah I would do it again. And if what he was saying wasn't just a drunk ramble, then he would too...
Oh bloody hell. I'm going to have to text him aren't I....

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MaccaPaccaismyNemesis · 06/01/2014 21:01

Text him!

Whitegrenache · 06/01/2014 21:01

Ooh I'm marking my place as I am curious!

FloWhite · 06/01/2014 21:01

"Text HIM, text HIM, text HIM" Grin.

G'wan.

FortyFacedFuckers · 06/01/2014 21:02

Oh text him!

RandomMess · 06/01/2014 21:03
Grin
secretsofsanta · 06/01/2014 21:03

Ohh exciting

TessTackle · 06/01/2014 21:04

Text him Frazzle

TheFutureSupremeRulersMum · 06/01/2014 21:04

I'm another in the text him camp.

IndiansInTheLobby · 06/01/2014 21:05

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Tobermory · 06/01/2014 21:05

Oooooh this is exciting.

You have to text him!

FrazzleRock · 06/01/2014 21:06

I honestly don't know how to be though!

I don't know if I actually have feelings for him, or if we were both just needing a bit of attention? He said he's ALWAYS fancied me. We were both pretty hammered though.

What if he asks how I feel. I honestly do not know. He probably doesn't either. Hence the reason we've not spoken since, I expect.

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FrazzleRock · 06/01/2014 21:06

YOU LOT!

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Tobermory · 06/01/2014 21:06

Would it be awful to admit to him that you don't know?

CrockedPot · 06/01/2014 21:07

Of course text him! (Another one here who married the very good friend they shagged!)

IndiansInTheLobby · 06/01/2014 21:08

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theswan · 06/01/2014 21:08

Have you text him yet? If not hurry up!

FrazzleRock · 06/01/2014 21:09

IndiansInTheLobby - I had thought about the whole FWB scenario. It would be great but, then what happens when one of us finally meets someone? We'd have to stop and that might be harder to do further down the line?

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FloWhite · 06/01/2014 21:09

We want a report!

FrazzleRock · 06/01/2014 21:10

K. So what do I say?

"Are we cool?" as ToniViolin says?

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FloWhite · 06/01/2014 21:11

Well you might start as FWB but then……and then you wouldn't want to meet someone else Smile

GimmeDaBoobehz · 06/01/2014 21:11

I think you should text him.

If he asks be honest and say you aren't sure where it should go from here but to just let things run naturally.

He might not be sure too. He might really want to be with you. He may just have found it a nice time and want to leave it like that but at least you'll know. :)

headlesslambrini · 06/01/2014 21:12

Be honest, if he asks how you feel just say that you are not sure and may need another round of sex to help you to make up your mind