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Shit! 'H' found out I've opened a bank account

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devonsmummy · 11/11/2013 12:49

He was verbally & physically abusive to me & ds a couple of weeks ago.
I want to leave but am a sahm in a jointly mortgaged property.
The only appointment the women's centre had was during half term so couldn't take it.
I've set up a bank account( as all I had was a joint account)
I don't know how he found out, but H phoned this morning & asked why I had a new account.
I was caught off guard & said because I wanted my own.
He's called again saying ' I don't understand why you need an account ' I cut the call short as just leaving for school run.
How do I make it seem innocent & not an account to use when I fell him its over?
I'm actually shitting myself about him coming home later as I know he won't leave it

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DownstairsMixUp · 18/11/2013 14:21

Have read all your updates, how is everything?

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FestiveEdition · 19/11/2013 08:24

Devons, still checking to see if you are OK.

You are in the thoughts of several people, truly hoping all is well
x

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EasyCompadre · 19/11/2013 08:37

Still thinking of you Devons, hope everything is going ok. Hope to hear from you soon.

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hollyisalovelyname · 23/11/2013 18:34

Devons hope all ok with you.

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