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Original poster

DP attacked me, think I have consussion.

189 replies

MrsRajeshKoothrappali · 16/09/2013 11:55

He's downstairs playing GTA, refused to drive me to A&E.

Feeling really sick. Head is thumping and am really dizzy. Can't stop crying.

He grabbed the hair at the roots on the top of my head and shook really hard.

I want to go to sleep but am scared I'll die.

:(

What do I do? Should I just beg him to help me?

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VoiceOfRaisin · 16/09/2013 12:16

If you don't have a phone, PM several of us your address (sorry not me as I don't really know how to do them) and we will call the police and ambulance for you.

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MrsRajeshKoothrappali · 16/09/2013 12:17

I got a taxi to local Minor Injuries.

Your posts are making me cry.

I feel awful. Head is killing me.

Lots of other people waiting so not alone.

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GeekLove · 16/09/2013 12:17

Please get this seen to ASAP. He has committed a criminal offence and assaulted you and therefore cannot be trusted around you and any children present.

RhondaJean · 16/09/2013 12:18

Oh bloody hell. If you are shouting out of the window, shout fire, not help, but please let us know you are okay as soon as you can.

RhondaJean · 16/09/2013 12:18

Oh phew.

VivaLeThrustBadger · 16/09/2013 12:21

What did he say when you left? Does he know where you've gone? Can you ring a friend to be with you?

captainmummy · 16/09/2013 12:22

Well done MrsRK - get it all on file! If they ask (and they will) tell them what happened! At the very Least it will be on record.

Ilovemydogandmydoglovesme · 16/09/2013 12:23

Glad someone is with you.

Please let us know how you area and what happens.

Big unMN hugs. Flowers

keepcalmandkickon · 16/09/2013 12:24

Well done for getting to the doctors!! Make sure you tell them what has happened and they record it. You have been amazingly brave and can do this!

Original poster
MrsRajeshKoothrappali · 16/09/2013 12:25

Don't have anyone to call.

My local friends ditched me when I had a nervous breakdown last year.

Other friends are miles away.

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wifey6 · 16/09/2013 12:25

Massive hugs MrsRK. You've done the right thing going to hospital, for your own safety & this incident will now be on file.

Ilovemydogandmydoglovesme · 16/09/2013 12:29

Oh sorry MrsRK o thought you meant you had people with you.

Where are you?

Gruntfuttock · 16/09/2013 12:30

You have told them at the hospital exactly what happened, haven't you? I really think the police need to be involved, for your own protection. It's important. I am so sorry that this has happened to you.

BeetleBugBaby · 16/09/2013 12:31

If you're local to me I will leave the kids with DP and come and sit with you if you are. I am in the Solihull area.

IslaValargeone · 16/09/2013 12:31

Where do you live Mrs. Raj?
There is bound to be a MNetter who can come and be with you.

IslaValargeone · 16/09/2013 12:31

I'm in Lancs btw.

Ilovemydogandmydoglovesme · 16/09/2013 12:32

I'm in Suffolk.

PopiusTartius · 16/09/2013 12:33

Please tell them what happened. Don't put up with this. You could have a better life x

NeopreneMermaid · 16/09/2013 12:34

You must tell the medical staff exactly what happened. This thug must not be in your house ever again.

IslaValargeone · 16/09/2013 12:34

Just checked her profile, she's in the West Country if anyone is around?

EldritchCleavage · 16/09/2013 12:35

Oh Mrs.RK. I'm so sorry.

Courage, my dear. And ring one of those friends from miles away and just talk while you wait. Even if you don't tell them what happened, just talk to someone who cares about you and take strength from that.

NeopreneMermaid · 16/09/2013 12:37

Can you call or email Women's Aid before you leave? 0808 2000 247 [email protected]

TeaMakesItAllPossible · 16/09/2013 12:40

MrsR if you are at RUH I can come and wait with you. You do not deserve this

Ilovemydogandmydoglovesme · 16/09/2013 12:41

How are you MrsRK?

WhoKnowsWhereTheTimeGoes · 16/09/2013 12:52

So sorry to hear this, hope you feel better soon and are able to get the help you need to walk away from this situation.