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DP attacked me, think I have consussion.

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MrsRajeshKoothrappali · 16/09/2013 11:55

He's downstairs playing GTA, refused to drive me to A&E.

Feeling really sick. Head is thumping and am really dizzy. Can't stop crying.

He grabbed the hair at the roots on the top of my head and shook really hard.

I want to go to sleep but am scared I'll die.

:(

What do I do? Should I just beg him to help me?

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WahIzzit · 04/10/2013 22:23

Is this man who attacked you still living with you?

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foolonthehill · 04/10/2013 22:25

you should be shocked and shaken.
please look after yourself and consider how you could safely get out of there. I know it is difficult to comprehend or to cope with this but he can and probably will do this again.

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Bogeyface · 04/10/2013 22:27

So you are still with him, still playing nice and wont change anything?

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Lweji · 04/10/2013 22:31

And I presume you're still buying a house with him?

I would seriously reconsider it.

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Bogeyface · 04/10/2013 22:35

I know it is difficult to comprehend or to cope with this but he can and probably will do this again.

That ship has sailed. From the OP's reaction I would say that this isnt the first time and that she is used to minimising :(

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MrsRajeshKoothrappali · 04/10/2013 22:40

He's still here.

I hate him. Really hate him.

Just no idea what to do. Completely worn down.

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foolonthehill · 04/10/2013 22:47

Yes i know, I've been there.....

Can you phone women's aid? The number does not show up on a BT phone bill. They are experts at helping women to get out safely, and they will believe and support you.

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foolonthehill · 04/10/2013 22:50

it is not impossible to be free...it just feels like it is. really you only have to do one small thing at a time.

First get some real life support:0808 2000 247

Use in private browsing and look here www.womensaid.org.uk/.

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Lweji · 04/10/2013 22:56

When you leave you'll find it easier than living with a man who gives you concussions.

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ChippingInNeedsSleepAndCoffee · 04/10/2013 22:56

Has he hurt you again?

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BoulevardOfBrokenSleep · 05/10/2013 09:02

Just talking to Women's Aid doesn't commit you to anything you know, but might help you to think things through. Sounds like you are short of RL support?

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EhricLovesTeamQhuay · 05/10/2013 17:13

Have you reported it to the police?

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Chubfuddler · 05/10/2013 17:14

You do know what you need to do op. You need to ring the police. I'll hold your hand while you do it.

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foolonthehill · 05/10/2013 19:43

we're all here for moral support and encouragement

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