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DP attacked me, think I have consussion.

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MrsRajeshKoothrappali · 16/09/2013 11:55

He's downstairs playing GTA, refused to drive me to A&E.

Feeling really sick. Head is thumping and am really dizzy. Can't stop crying.

He grabbed the hair at the roots on the top of my head and shook really hard.

I want to go to sleep but am scared I'll die.

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What do I do? Should I just beg him to help me?

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MrsRajeshKoothrappali · 16/09/2013 12:53

I'm still waiting.

Battery low.

Really sleepy...!

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MrsRajeshKoothrappali · 16/09/2013 12:59

There's a bloke here who hammered a nail through two of his fingers.

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HotCrossPun · 16/09/2013 12:59

MrsRK - I'm so sorry this has happened. One thing at a time, get your injuries seen to and the hospital can call the police for you. Id you don't have anybody near by that can support you I'm sure a local MNner would.

We are all here for you if you need to talk x

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QuintessentialShadows · 16/09/2013 13:01

Poor you. Please tell the doctor what happened.

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Faverolles · 16/09/2013 13:03

MrsRaj, I'm really sorry to hear this. Take care of yourself xx

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YoniMatopoeia · 16/09/2013 13:03

Please be honest with them about how you were injured (assaulted)

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Leverette · 16/09/2013 13:07

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LurcioLovesFrankie · 16/09/2013 13:08

If you're in the RD&E, let me know! I am local to there.

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Ilovemydogandmydoglovesme · 16/09/2013 13:08

How's the bloke with the nail? Grin

Do you want someone to come and sit with you? If you say which hospital you're in I'm sure someone will be around. Don't sit there on your own when there's probably hundreds of MNetters about. I'd come but I think you're the other side of the country to me!

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VoiceOfRaisin · 16/09/2013 13:14

Well done for getting yourself to some medical care. I hope you feel better soon. I agree about contacting Women's Aid and telling the police about what happened. Keep yourself safe. Do you have DC? Are they at school today? If so, can you be at pick up or should you alert the school?

Big hugs

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AvonCallingBarksdale · 16/09/2013 13:17

Gosh, I recognise you from lots of threads. You're in the right place now. Did you tell DP where you were going? Are you safe to return to your home?

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Vagazzled · 16/09/2013 13:21

I'm in the West Country, can I help? You can PM me where you are. I'm South West Devon.

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MimsyBorogroves · 16/09/2013 13:36

MrsR - I'm near you, as you know. Am PMing you my mobile number. Other than a school pick up at 3ish I am free - please, please let me know if I can do anything.

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JakeBullet · 16/09/2013 13:41

Please please contact Women's Aid.....you can go I to a Refuge today if you want to and they will help you from there.

Hope you are okay....get the MIU to log this and ensure you tell them what he has done.

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Ilovemydogandmydoglovesme · 16/09/2013 14:01

I have to go out now but will be back in a little while.

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AnotherStitchInTime · 16/09/2013 14:27

Oh Mrs, I hope you are ok and the staff at the MIU are taking good care of you.

Please do not minimise what has happened to you when talking to them.

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GeekLove · 16/09/2013 14:45

If you get any wobbles about prosecuting then please read this thread, particuarly if you forget any details due to the concussion.

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Lweji · 16/09/2013 15:30

So sorry. :(

I'm glad you're seeking help.

Please do tell the nurse/doctor how you got injured and do call the police. Hopefully, they'll arrest him.

Take care and please do not go back to your home. Ring WA as a matter of urgency to find a refuge place.
Stay with family or friends, or even a hotel, if he's not taken away.

Stay safe.

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JustBecauseICan · 16/09/2013 15:33

Good lord.

Sending love and strength from here as well, Mrs R.

(your Id always makes me smile)

We'll be here to talk about what happens next when you are feeling up to it. xx

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MrsWolowitz · 16/09/2013 15:36

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PrincessKildare · 16/09/2013 15:38

Im so sorry you are in this position. Please call the police. do not go home alone. that Thug is clearly dangerous. i hooe u are ok.

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LeGavrOrf · 16/09/2013 15:41

Bloody hell Rajesh. I hope you're ok. What a horrible thing to happen.

If you are in the West Country I am in Gloucester if that's near you.

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MimsyBorogroves · 16/09/2013 15:47

Another voice saying please don't go home.

I've sent you my number. You are more than welcome here - we can charge your phone, I have free calls if you need credit etc on yours, or I'm happy to meet you somewhere if you'd like to use it.

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Ilovemydogandmydoglovesme · 16/09/2013 15:51

How's it going? Are you ok? Have you been seen by anyone yet?

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absentmindeddooooodles · 16/09/2013 15:55

How are you? Have you spoken to anyone? If you are anywhere near me let me know if I can help in any way at all. Even if its just coming to sit there x

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