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DP attacked me, think I have consussion.

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MrsRajeshKoothrappali · 16/09/2013 11:55

He's downstairs playing GTA, refused to drive me to A&E.

Feeling really sick. Head is thumping and am really dizzy. Can't stop crying.

He grabbed the hair at the roots on the top of my head and shook really hard.

I want to go to sleep but am scared I'll die.

:(

What do I do? Should I just beg him to help me?

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foolonthehill · 05/10/2013 19:43

we're all here for moral support and encouragement

Chubfuddler · 05/10/2013 17:14

You do know what you need to do op. You need to ring the police. I'll hold your hand while you do it.

EhricLovesTeamQhuay · 05/10/2013 17:13

Have you reported it to the police?

BoulevardOfBrokenSleep · 05/10/2013 09:02

Just talking to Women's Aid doesn't commit you to anything you know, but might help you to think things through. Sounds like you are short of RL support?

ChippingInNeedsSleepAndCoffee · 04/10/2013 22:56

Has he hurt you again?

Lweji · 04/10/2013 22:56

When you leave you'll find it easier than living with a man who gives you concussions.

foolonthehill · 04/10/2013 22:50

it is not impossible to be free...it just feels like it is. really you only have to do one small thing at a time.

First get some real life support:0808 2000 247

Use in private browsing and look here www.womensaid.org.uk/.

foolonthehill · 04/10/2013 22:47

Yes i know, I've been there.....

Can you phone women's aid? The number does not show up on a BT phone bill. They are experts at helping women to get out safely, and they will believe and support you.

MrsRajeshKoothrappali · 04/10/2013 22:40

He's still here.

I hate him. Really hate him.

Just no idea what to do. Completely worn down.

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Bogeyface · 04/10/2013 22:35

I know it is difficult to comprehend or to cope with this but he can and probably will do this again.

That ship has sailed. From the OP's reaction I would say that this isnt the first time and that she is used to minimising :(

Lweji · 04/10/2013 22:31

And I presume you're still buying a house with him?

I would seriously reconsider it.

Bogeyface · 04/10/2013 22:27

So you are still with him, still playing nice and wont change anything?

foolonthehill · 04/10/2013 22:25

you should be shocked and shaken.
please look after yourself and consider how you could safely get out of there. I know it is difficult to comprehend or to cope with this but he can and probably will do this again.

WahIzzit · 04/10/2013 22:23

Is this man who attacked you still living with you?

MrsRajeshKoothrappali · 04/10/2013 22:10

Yes, I'm okay.

Still feeling a bit shaken by the whole thing.

Just trying to get on with it.

Appreciate everyone being so nice.

:)

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Lweji · 04/10/2013 21:36

Sadly, I think so.
There's at least a post on the 30th last month where she uses "DP".

:(

Fingers crossed for her.

JaneFonda · 04/10/2013 20:08

OP, I was thinking of you today.

I hope you are okay and, like other posters have said, that you haven't just brushed this under the carpet.

Madratlady · 25/09/2013 13:20

Is this the first time he's hurt you? Even if it is then he's 'got away with it' this time so he'll most likely do it again. He didn't show any remorse or even take you for the medical attention you needed.

I hope you find the strength to get out of there and tell the police, you have your injury on record now if you do decide to report it. He shouldn't be allowed to treat you like that.

kinkyfuckery · 25/09/2013 11:43

How are things?

Did you tell Minor Injuries what happened?

SugarMiceInTheRain · 23/09/2013 14:18

Please don't ignore what he's done and brush it under the carpet Mrs RK. It's really, really not ok. Even if he goes back to being nice. :-(

buildingmycorestrength · 23/09/2013 14:12

How are you, Mrs RK? You okay?

YoureBeingADick · 20/09/2013 00:41

you need to not pretend this is all sorted. it's not- this is him- it's who he is and it's what he does- you don't have any control over who he is or what he does- you only have control over whether he does it to you.

take yourself out of this situation- at least for a few days until the swimmyness is gone and you have the energy to deal with it. you know you need to. it's hard to take that step but you must. you know that pet don't you?

(((hugs)))

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WeAreSeven · 20/09/2013 00:31

Oh, bloody hell, Mrs RK, this isn't right, you know that.
He will do it again.
You need to get out.

SquirtedPerfumeUpNoseInBoots · 19/09/2013 23:42

How are you?

captainmummy · 19/09/2013 11:06

Mrs RK - how are you today?

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