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DP attacked me, think I have consussion.

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MrsRajeshKoothrappali · 16/09/2013 11:55

He's downstairs playing GTA, refused to drive me to A&E.

Feeling really sick. Head is thumping and am really dizzy. Can't stop crying.

He grabbed the hair at the roots on the top of my head and shook really hard.

I want to go to sleep but am scared I'll die.

:(

What do I do? Should I just beg him to help me?

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greenhill · 17/09/2013 10:10

Just saw this mrsrk Sad. Hope you get some rest today.

Ilovemydogandmydoglovesme · 17/09/2013 10:53

Glad you're feeling a bit better.

We're still here for you. Smile

Leverette · 17/09/2013 12:08

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FetchezLaVache · 17/09/2013 12:13

Sending you a Biscuit, but in a good way!

NeopreneMermaid · 17/09/2013 18:09

How has today gone?

MimsyBorogroves · 17/09/2013 23:03

How are you getting on, MrsR?

Bogeyface · 17/09/2013 23:58

You are worrying me a lot.

You have been attacked to the point of concussion which is very serious, yet you are acting like its all over and everything is fine. To show comparison, I was in a serious car accident (was hit by a lorry) where there were 6 different calls to emergency services as people thought we were dead/dying. I didnt get concussion (other injuries, but not that).

This isnt the first time this has happened is it? This isnt the first time he has cried and been "gutted" is it? I am worried that you are being abused on a regular basis, and not only physically.

I know you are a regular so please come back to this thread, we can help you. There are many ways you can escape this.

Chubfuddler · 18/09/2013 09:44

I've seen you posting elsewhere on the site in the last day op so I think you've kissed and made up, and he's being sweetness and light. Until next time.

Please believe me that there will be a next time whatever he says, unless you leave him.

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MrsRajeshKoothrappali · 18/09/2013 09:50

I'm okay.

Head is still 'swimmy'. Am really tired. Can really think straight.

Haven't said much to DP. Don't have the energy to think about it at the moment.

Spent yesterday snoozing and post on MN. Doing the same today.

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JustBecauseICan · 18/09/2013 09:51

Gonna have to deal with it at some point.

If you are still feeling the effects of this thumping, how bad does that make it huh?

Or is the swimmy head an excuse to not deal with it?

People are going to start getting hard with you now, you know....because we care. x

Chubfuddler · 18/09/2013 09:53

I know you don't want to think about it. There's a mental leap to be made here and once you've made it, the rest will have to follow. I did a masterly line in cognitive dissonance for years.

BeerTricksPotter · 18/09/2013 10:00

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MimsyBorogroves · 18/09/2013 11:22

Stay safe and rest - when you are ready to talk we are here.

Lweji · 18/09/2013 11:36

TBH, I don't think there's a lot to think about.

I was able to leave ex when I didn't think. I simply knew I could not put up with it again.
And I had to protect myself and DS.

Ask yourself if you want to be placed in the same position again.

You haven't given him an ultimatum, and he hasn't made up for what he did or even suggested counselling for himself, has he?

You know what you have to do. You just don't want to do it. Sad

captainmummy · 19/09/2013 11:06

Mrs RK - how are you today?

SquirtedPerfumeUpNoseInBoots · 19/09/2013 23:42

How are you?

WeAreSeven · 20/09/2013 00:31

Oh, bloody hell, Mrs RK, this isn't right, you know that.
He will do it again.
You need to get out.

YoureBeingADick · 20/09/2013 00:41
Sad

you need to not pretend this is all sorted. it's not- this is him- it's who he is and it's what he does- you don't have any control over who he is or what he does- you only have control over whether he does it to you.

take yourself out of this situation- at least for a few days until the swimmyness is gone and you have the energy to deal with it. you know you need to. it's hard to take that step but you must. you know that pet don't you?

(((hugs)))

buildingmycorestrength · 23/09/2013 14:12

How are you, Mrs RK? You okay?

SugarMiceInTheRain · 23/09/2013 14:18

Please don't ignore what he's done and brush it under the carpet Mrs RK. It's really, really not ok. Even if he goes back to being nice. :-(

kinkyfuckery · 25/09/2013 11:43

How are things?

Did you tell Minor Injuries what happened?

Madratlady · 25/09/2013 13:20

Is this the first time he's hurt you? Even if it is then he's 'got away with it' this time so he'll most likely do it again. He didn't show any remorse or even take you for the medical attention you needed.

I hope you find the strength to get out of there and tell the police, you have your injury on record now if you do decide to report it. He shouldn't be allowed to treat you like that.

JaneFonda · 04/10/2013 20:08

OP, I was thinking of you today.

I hope you are okay and, like other posters have said, that you haven't just brushed this under the carpet.

Lweji · 04/10/2013 21:36

Sadly, I think so.
There's at least a post on the 30th last month where she uses "DP".

:(

Fingers crossed for her.

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MrsRajeshKoothrappali · 04/10/2013 22:10

Yes, I'm okay.

Still feeling a bit shaken by the whole thing.

Just trying to get on with it.

Appreciate everyone being so nice.

:)

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