DP is away on a business trip. I didn't hear from him at the usual time, just before dinner.
I went to bed still not hearing from him. I didn't call to say goodnight as I didn't know if he was busy with clients, and the brush off I get if he is I don't like.
I woke to an email that he had sent at 2am. Telling me goodnight and that he was ALONE. Alarm bells rang, as why would he feel the need to point that out at that time in the morning.
He then went on to say that during the evening he had been propositioned by women more than once.
I'm I right in thinking that women don't just proposition a man unless he is giving them the big come on.?
I'm I right to be upset by his email.? Or am I just being insecure and jealous for no reason.
By his text he'd had too much corporate wine, without a doubt.!
He has form. Last year getting pissed and doing the business on a works trip. He did tell me about this but without an apology. Just I was drunk it just happened. Not everything is black and white etc. But no sorry.
I've not replied to his email or answered his call this morning. As I don't know if I'm right or wrong in thinking something fishy is going on.
He has another 2 nights away. Part of me wants to wish him better luck for tonight. The other part of me want to just bite my own tounge and send a nice reply without a mention of last nights email.
Please tell me is this a red flag or I'm I overreacting because of his history and how insecure he makes me feel.?