why oh why oh why!?

[Darnsarfupnorf]

Do I keep going back to him?!

im usualy quite a strong person, will speak my mind and assert myself when i need to so why when it comes to now ex (again!) OH am i such an idiotic pushover?!

hes treated me like shit over the last 18 months (see several other threads lol) hes messed me around, broken my heart, abandoned me when his new girlfriend threw a paddy about how much time we were spending together (i was pregnant with his cghild and barely saw him), together with her generaly made my life hell until he saw sence and fucked her off.

i (stupidly) took him back even though i knew it was wrong, hes not acted like a boyfriend at all over the last 3 months, avoiding sex and general physical contact, not replying to texts etc etc, ignored me from boxing day til new years eve even though i sent many frantic texts/left messages worried about the baby but to top it off he finnished with me at 11.30 on new years eve!!

im now 7 months pregnant and am just at a loss!! i was gonna say why does he think he can treat me like this but its because i let him...why do i let him!!?? why am i not furious with him for treating me like this?!

why am i so scared of being on my own? :(

are you for real honestly........ for getten to mention a gd few things ere arent we like haha... joke! "after the truely unforgivable things shes done and hes admitted they horrendous and hes still blind and selfish enough to forget about it and make excuses for her", wouldnt mind knowing what ur on about, infact or this part, "when we got back together after they split up she went spare and sent yet more threats about what shed do to me if she ever saw me etc (probly empty threats but you dont need it when your pregnant, do you?".... last i checked grl u come to my house 4 some of his stuff an was texten u 4 abit after tha an then we stopped talkin....... you didnt mention why you hardly seen him eithth while i was wit him did you? i will answer that 1 for you shall i.... you were sleeping with him while i was still with him an thats how the lil 1 was concieved an am evil..... when me an him were still together i met up with u an you were alll sound untill u didnt get wa u wanted, an used me to get to him.......... all this love is pathetic! he wants to be a part of the baby's life and you know it, an am not goin to stop him things arent like they were before cz am not makin the mistake of talkin to you agen :) you kno he aint as bad as you are making out, you are basically sayen if he moves on or gets with any1 else then you are moving away, and is blackmale this aint nothing to do with me or what ever happend in the past this is about you not being able to let go of something that obviously aint workin, so while ya sitten there slaggen me an G off love try an write in wa u'v done aswell an you wouldnt get support you have...... me and my babys dad went through hell an back when i was pregnant he moved on but i never told him he couldnt see y lil girl....... its pathetic...... an the day me an him broke up i did text you sayen i hope you know you got what you want ya dirty lil slag.... an u replied " yea i did and you got what you deserved, took the time but was worth the wait, say hi to jade for me"........ and on the subject of Jade another you used to try an get at G! get a grip will ya an concentrate more on being a mother than what you ex does wen he isnt around you....... an for the record av always sed to him and you i will never come inbetween G an that baby and you know it

Well, I think I understand about 20% of that last post

Oh class.

thats because the evil ex she is goin on about is me in this whole story thats full of shit lol, so all use that are sitten there slaggin the babys dad off you's aint got a clue whats gone on or both side the story your takin her word for everything....... when i can tell you all now this girl is one sad twisted lil grl an brought everything on her self

oh an for the record he aint got me pregnant at all :/ so were she is getten tha 1 from beats me..

Well, yes, we are going on what the op said as that's all we have to go on. Until now I suppose. If i read your first post correct, he was sleeping with the op when you were his girlfriend, and she conceived. Is that right?

And you want a slanging match over this guy?

no i dont want a slangen match over him i just wont sit there and get called everything under the sun because she's got a problem with us....... and yer you read it correct, makes him sound bad an you will agree with her but it does take 2 to tango, she knew he was in a relationship so she should of sed no and walked away so on that hand i blame them both not just her, but my point is she is makin her self out to be so innocent when she is far from it, when she wants to be she can be a lovly girl but when she sits there written half the stuff she has that arnt true am goin to have something to say, oh an for the record i havent once threatend her wouldnt fight with a pregnant girl tbh am not tha low to do something like that, and if she has a problem with me why cant she talk to me about it instead of writing it all over the internet, were she didnt think ad find out ??

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shivo...you are barely literate

best you sort that out, before posting on the internet

AnyFucker........... do i look like i give too shits wether i am literate or not???? well no i dont but i do get straight to the fuckin point, you dont fukin no me so dont sit there given shit, you dont even no Rachel or as she calls her self Darnsarfupnorf..... so i suggest u sit there an keep ya fukin mouth shut untill u no facts..... not just what Rachel has wrote, untill then take care lovly

Nope, can't understand shivo's post at all.

Good grief!! What ever happened to grammar and spelling?

Well, let me get straight to the point. This thread was so depressing to read, single parent to be, bad relationship with ex who lies, blah blah blah. Along comes you, and the story is even bleaker. You want to state your version, well go ahead, but it makes no difference to the advice we gave the op. Which is run as fast as you can, back home, and away from this mess.

Still leaves you with a liar and cheat for a boyfriend, and a gross inability to write and spell.

How on earth are we supposed to see your side of the story if you insist on being unintelligible?

shivo, paragraphs are your friend

To be honest I can type 'properly' I choose not too. And what has being illiterate or whatever got to do with it when it's what's being said in my posts that matter.

And perfumedlife you've given her advice to run way back home from this 'mess' when she's clearly not little miss innocent herself in any of this.

She's making a thing about him and being a dad, when he wants nothing more than to be a good dad to the baby, it's just her he wants fuck all to do with, lol. :D ... and I can't blame him. She's done nothing but cause murder over the past few months.

Yeah he might be a cheat but so is she at the end of the day.

can i just ask shivo ,how did you know about darnsarfupnorfs posts on here?

No might about it, he is a cheat, he cheated on you with her. Does that thought fill you with pride? I can see that being misrepresented would be aggravating, and you want to give your side. But, honestly, what is the point when the man in question is a liar and a cheat. Why give it your energy?

I still say op should go home and be with those who love her, as there clearly is no love left here. Your dp can still be a dad who travels to see his child. And when he does, I wouldn't like to be you, wondering who he is lying to now, who he is cheating on you with.

she sent him a link on MSN..... therefore she has done it to cause trouble.

at the end of the day i dont care what use think of me, it dont make a difference to me or my life i dont know use.

As for you though Rachel you got a problem with me, talk to me about it instead of sayen all kinds all over a web site.

interesting ability to post using several different styles wihin the same paragraph

is this a well-practiced troll do we think ?

you really shouldn't use real names though, that is so not cricket

Shivo, darling, if you are real, this man cheated on you. The proof is there in the foetus. And you want to have anything to do with this man (I use the term loosley).

Where's your self respect?

perfumedlife love the way you think you know everything like.

the problem i have isnt nothing to do with her him an their kid. my problem is what she was writing about me on here. I aint spoke to the girl for agers. and the last time i did things were fine.

If Rachel decides to move away then that's her call. A few have said maybe its for the best, but people that actually know whats going on E.G babys dad's mates.But like i said before thats not my problem.

i will never come inbetween him and his child, as i have a baby my self and i have been through everything she thinks she goin through.

whether she goes or stay's she will always have the help she need's and she knows that or she would of left 6 months ago when she found out she was pregnant.

ladies i give you the ex...

im not arguing with you about this, your just proving me right.

slug like i have just said to perfumedlife i dont care what you's think of me.

My problem is what she was writing about me! what i do with babys dad has nothing to do with any of use. Or her!

no wonder this country is goin' to the dogs

gawd knows how Jeremey Kyle manages to get 'em all on his show...

he is a bloody saint, that man

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shivo, try to be consistent, eh ?

you are showing up your lack of brain cells, love

real trolls are usually quite clever

hahahaha. "ladies i give you the ex..." Slight mistake there darling..... She gives you the current Partner of her babys daddy :)

And of course you wont argue with me you dont want all these silly little people to find out what you are really like!

Rachel you really are a sad sad girl, because not only will you not say it too me love but you still cant tell me yourself on this stupid fuckin site :/