why oh why oh why!?

[Darnsarfupnorf]

Do I keep going back to him?!

im usualy quite a strong person, will speak my mind and assert myself when i need to so why when it comes to now ex (again!) OH am i such an idiotic pushover?!

hes treated me like shit over the last 18 months (see several other threads lol) hes messed me around, broken my heart, abandoned me when his new girlfriend threw a paddy about how much time we were spending together (i was pregnant with his cghild and barely saw him), together with her generaly made my life hell until he saw sence and fucked her off.

i (stupidly) took him back even though i knew it was wrong, hes not acted like a boyfriend at all over the last 3 months, avoiding sex and general physical contact, not replying to texts etc etc, ignored me from boxing day til new years eve even though i sent many frantic texts/left messages worried about the baby but to top it off he finnished with me at 11.30 on new years eve!!

im now 7 months pregnant and am just at a loss!! i was gonna say why does he think he can treat me like this but its because i let him...why do i let him!!?? why am i not furious with him for treating me like this?!

why am i so scared of being on my own? :(

any fucker you are making me laugh yano :) carry on :D it dont effect me in the slightest

im not going to argue with you on here because i dont want to argue with you at all, the whole reason im leaving is to avoid all this.
and i only put it on here in the first place because i had no one else to talk to, happy? im lonely and scared and 150 miles from my parents and in 10 weeks im gonna give birth and for the past 6 months ive been putting up with the shit thrown at me by him but ive stayed because i want my baby to have her dad but obviously its not going to work me being up here.
im not stopping him seeing her, you know that and ive given him everychance to be a good dad to her all of which hes thrown back in my face.
ive not lied on here, yea ive not put everything down but how long would the post have been if i did?!
im not innocent but none of us are and all that matters to me is that my baby grows up in the best environment i can provide.

so back off, grow up and let me do what i thinks best for my daughter

so how ya feeling lol??

No seriously though, i aint goin to stop him seeing you or the baby. i understand that you are scared, use can still be friends tho, i kno he can be a nob the amout of arguments i have had with him to make sure he text you to see how you an the baby are, you kno ya self i wouldnt stop him being a dad i have told you loads of time's before. if am honest its nothing to do with me what ya do. but he aint goin to leave ya too go threw this by ya self. i dont think he will anyway but i also wont let him just like you wont. no matter were you go you will never be by ya self through any of it. i have told you a million times before to do what you think is best for the baby. but i was happy not speakin to ya till i seen wa you was writen on ere aba me. all this is over something stupid an pathetic an u kno it

Almost there

Now you both know the score, nobody wants to hurt or deprive any baby of their daddy, can you please deal wtih the real problem, which seems to me to be a guy who can't lie straight, cheats and gets girls pregnant when he is with someone else.

Because however you deny it Shiva, he is your problem here.

I am glad you are getting some enjoyment out of it, shivo

I am splitting my sides here

you are fun

both you girls are too stupid to realise there is some fuckwit sat with a smirk on his face, as he revels in the fact that two silly women are fighting over him

am happy 4 you :)

an am not fighting over any1

if you think i should do whats right for the baby why are you telling me im such a bad person for doing it?
im not stopping him being a dad, why would i after so many months trying to encourage him to be?
he is the problem, and ive told him as much.
there was no reason for him to show you this, he knew it would cause shit. i showed him because i wanted him to see the kind of reactions what hes doing was getting.

i put myself through so much trying to get him to be a dad but he keeps throwing it back at me like ive said nd im not standing for it anymore.
he might be a great dad but i need supoort and i wont get it off him, he ignores my texts and my calls and the other day before we went to the hospital i rang him panicing and crying and he told me he couldnt come round becuase it was his friends birthday

ive told him that me moving probly wont be forever and i know itll upset him but he doesnt understand how much it hurts me.
my life doesnt revolve around him and hes already had more chances than he deserves...off both of us.

he'll still be her dad and im not denying him that im doing what i thinks best for me and my baby

well if you think thats for the best then you do that :)....... he will try and stop you he always does an he knows what to say to make you feel bas as you kno for yourself. and no 1 is sayen you are going to stop him being a dad just means he will have to get a car an go down your ways visiting whether he likes it or not. We was at Sarahs for her birthday, and he did go the hospital with you though coz i came back to him with the baby :). and yea he has had chance after chance, but you know for ya self how hard it is too get over him, i just dont want to lol, strange i kno but there ya go.

i dont really know whats gone on with you two the last 3 months but i do kno before that use was on and off about him being in the babys life because you was confused and wanted to best 4 the baby.

but the rest is down to use 2 and has nothing to do with me or any1 else, but use dom need a propa talk face o face

yea he did come eventualy and he was great but commin 2nd to a party really isnt what i needed...

an yea it is hard to get over him...hence the post...lol but read the whole thing an you might..i dunno...identify with something?
yea i think your both daft but i told you that last time but its your choice obv

we got back together after you broke up, i knew it was wrong but im glad we tried. i know im properly over him now and all this is just a last desperate attempt to get him to grow up and do the right thing, whatever that is now.

an he was ment to come round on sunday but never showed, said he fell asleep or something. he doesnt want to come because he knows what ill say and you know he doesnt like to hear the truth when hes in the wrong...

Is anyone else thinking this is the same person arguing with themself?

yer an he will sit there an huff an puff as plain usual, but thats G 4 ya init....

you do need to make him come round and talk to you tbh, he has made his bed he can lie init, time for him to face the music (agen).

he didnt wanna tell you about me and him incase you moved, but obviously i wernt too happy about that, coz he has messed you about soooo much in the last few months an it obv wernt fare on u, hence the fact why i wrote all tha on his fb.

couldnt be assed with an other relationship based on lies an arguments that dont need to be there.

i sed last time you didnt need all the stress and you wernt that far gone, now ur ready to drop lol u deffo dont need it now.

who knows ?

I think this lad must have a solid gold cock though

anyfucker he wishes lol

i didnt want him to get back with you because i knew this would happen, the arguments, the lies, everything. also because i knew youd come first in his priorities and selfish as it is, im nearly 8 months pregnant and if hes gonna be my main support like he wants to be then i need to be number 1. he cant have it both ways

an yea that is just him but thats why i need to go and he needs to let me because hes not going to change

but dont the fact that he went the hospital prove use are number 1 priority?

i dont wanna be number 1 priority, but there are loads of people out there with kids an arnt with the dad/mum.

use can make it work use just both need to tell each other what use want an need from each other but in a calm an civil way.

but if you know what he is like then dont expect too much an you wont get hurt agen.

if that sounds horrible i didnt mean it like that lol

ive told him and told him but nothin changes.
you cant make someone hear if theyre blocking their ears and thats why im going.

hes ignored me since you kicked off on here but just text sayin hell come tomorow after i txt him saying we need to talk but im not doin the chasing etc. but you probly already know that, you probly sat right next to him

Don't delay Darns
Move noew away from these idiots before you have your DD. Do you really want this illiterate thicko shivo being involved in bringing up your baby with the twunt. I hope not. She deserves much better than this current set up.
If the twunt want a relationship with his DD let him do the running and prove that he is fit, capable and responsible enough to be a dad. let him man up.
The way things stand just now he is an irresponsible thoughtless cheat, who shows you support by showing this classy burd shivo your thread. Bet he is laughing now.
So unless you are really enjoying the drama that is being played out here get organised and move in Feb when youur course finishes.
Give your DD a chance of a stable life away from this toxic twosome.

he told me u text like an he was goin to your's but i dont need all detail's lol.

make sure u tell him everything u need to though :)

an no he aint sitten next to me he is in the shop.

and doha do remind me who the fuck you are? and what actual facts you fuckin know, other than what been said/done on this post.

you know fuck all about me you muppit. oh an 4 the record am far from classy love.

yep you got that bit right shivo
you are so "far from classy" in fact it would seem you have a bit of a problem stringing 2 letters together never mind 2 words.
Go crawl away back under your stone.

Darns, in reference to the above post-- l rest my case.

lol at you lovely......

have fun getten involved with things that have nothing what so ever to do with you..... you sad sad person.

shows u dnt have a life really, goin on here reading other peoples problem's and involving your little self in them you tool

leave 'em to it, doha

everyone else has

two silly girls picking over the bones of a fuckwit like this cockhead, in public, on the internet

pathetic

and his head will be the size of a house by now

shivo, your boyfriend sounds like a proper prize

the booby prize

I predict you will be back here in 12 months time in a bit of a Jeremy Kyle-esque fix yourself, you silly mare

lol use do make me laugh.

Sit there an judge people ya dont kno all ya want, an use call me silly :/

anyway bored of this now its stupid the fact there are loads of people tha dont me, rach or G thinkin they kno it all.

and i am not that sad to write all my problems on a website full of random people i dont know if am honest like. so no i wont be here in 12 months. pretty sure use will be kept up dated on me an G though :) have fun reading about it all.

get on with ya own lives an sort ur own problems before you think you can sort a complete strangers out yea

much love

xx

right back atcha