First sex after DH. Scared shitless

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Last time I was dating I was 18, stretchmark free and didn't have any body hangups.

I have met someone who seems great, been dating for a month and I really fancy him. He has been living with his ex wife while they sold house/had joint christmas with kids and just moved into his own place.

All our dates so far have been public places but he has asked if I want to come to his new house and I'm terrified of the sex thing.

He's an athlete and very fit. I've seen photos of his ex and she is gorgeous/toned/pretty. I'm fit/healthy weight but without clothes it's not pretty.

We'd agreed to take stuff slowly but there is a lot of sexual chemistry and I really want to but scared he won't like me once he sees me naked.

Hi OP. I'm a bloke and first time posting here, because your posting seemed familiar to me.
In short, I was married 25 years to only woman I had slept with, she left last year and I am at home with 3 (older) kids. I met a lovely lady on line; after a few dates she was the one to suggest going to bed together and I was as nervous as hell. So things didn't go very well for first few times, let's say it was unpredictable (never happened before - very embarrassing) but she was wonderfully patient and things now back on track .

So my experience is that nerves can play a hell of a trick on a bloke! I am sure it'll settle down and things will be fab - just let it take its course...

Thanks sunray, glad it worked out for you!

hey lw...are we living the same lives???? gym boy had a 'flop' at weekend after he came round for a little action.....i passed it off and acted cool and made some comment bout dont worry you just tired(had been at it like rabbits all weekend)....anyway he have made veiled comments bout it since-is obviously bit worried-that i have made light of and said it can happen to anyone,i,m not worried.....hope that was the right thing to do???

Just checking in as it's date night. Hope your evening is fantastic LW.

Thanks Blinder, it's all good!!