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First sex after DH. Scared shitless

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longweight · 01/01/2011 20:20

Last time I was dating I was 18, stretchmark free and didn't have any body hangups.

I have met someone who seems great, been dating for a month and I really fancy him. He has been living with his ex wife while they sold house/had joint christmas with kids and just moved into his own place.

All our dates so far have been public places but he has asked if I want to come to his new house and I'm terrified of the sex thing.

He's an athlete and very fit. I've seen photos of his ex and she is gorgeous/toned/pretty. I'm fit/healthy weight but without clothes it's not pretty.

We'd agreed to take stuff slowly but there is a lot of sexual chemistry and I really want to but scared he won't like me once he sees me naked.

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MakeYerOwnDamnDinner · 11/01/2011 21:02

And here's another hope you have a great time from me too. Smile

pinkhair · 11/01/2011 21:04

Go girl Go girl hope your having fun,
Go girl Go girl hope your giving him one!:o

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MaggieMuggins · 11/01/2011 22:51

God, the pressure - never mind pleasing Mr Muscles, she has got half of MN waiting with bated breath! :o

blinder · 11/01/2011 22:59

She's not here. Which is a very good sign.

She can handle the pressure! We're all behind you Longweight (not literally. Don't panic)!

KangarooCaught · 11/01/2011 23:03

Popping in to check there is no update. No? Good.

winnybella · 11/01/2011 23:03

Oooooooh Grin

Hope she comes back here tomorrow and tells us all about it.

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longweight · 12/01/2011 08:08

We did it Grin

He took me for dinner then back to his. I was a little shaky but the expression on his face when he found the tops of my stockings gave me such a boost, I didn't care from then in.

Muscles was way more nervous than me!

I didn't bother with the new undies as white didn't go with my outfit so wore black low cut bra and non matching sheer thong.

I got a few surprises myself, I had not considered that in his sport men shave off all visible body hair which was interesting. His muscles were very pleasant on closer inspection, I scrutinised them closely on your behalf and can declare them lean and sinewy.
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Honestly he was so extremely appreciative of me there was no mistaking his delight, I felt amazing.

Thanks to my shag support crew for putting me on the path to enlightenment.

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BooBooGlass · 12/01/2011 08:09

Woo hoo!! Grin
Here's to much more shagging Wink

KangarooCaught · 12/01/2011 08:26

Fabulous - you sound a total fox! Grin Glad Muscles lived up to billing, his nerves & appreciation make him sound rather lovely actually.

Encore?

MakeYerOwnDamnDinner · 12/01/2011 08:30

Hooray! So glad it went well. x

Hazeleyedbaby · 12/01/2011 09:15

Yay good on you you will likely have a wonderful day filled with flashbacks -enjoy!

winnybella · 12/01/2011 09:23

Yay!!!!!
So was it good? I mean you felt confident which is great- was Mr.Muscles ok in bed?

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CatPower · 12/01/2011 10:14

Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay! All hail the ubersexy longweight! Glad you had a brilliant time! :)

blinder · 12/01/2011 11:04

Aw Mr Muscles sounds like quite a nice chap!

So happy for you Longweight. The perfect antidote to your ex. Onwards and upwards (no pun intended Blush).

But er yes, was it (you know) good?

TroonDuneGirl · 12/01/2011 11:46

Glad it went well, LW

the expression on his face when he found the tops of my stockings gave me such a boost, I didn't care from then in

But what is it with men and stocking tops, though? My DH goes quite daft when he knows I'm wearing them :)

SlightlyJaded · 12/01/2011 11:55

Whoop for you LW.

Have been silently stalking lurking on this thread and so glad it went well.

It must be very daunting. I sometimes shudder at e thought of having to get back out there again but I am not half as hot as you sound.

Actually you and Mr Muscles both sound very lovely and mutually appreciative of each other. Good for you.

Now you can relax and enjoy 'round 2'

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BettySwalloxs · 12/01/2011 12:59

Brilliant! I think we were all wanting to get some bedroom action vicariously through you!

Hope it goes well and you seem to have found a good 'un.
Let us all know how it is going . Perhaps we need a 'shagometer' on this thread for LW and we can all see how she is doing!

Go girl go!
BS

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longweight · 12/01/2011 13:09

Ummm he was very nervous. Am glad I didn't wear anything too naughty as he seemed a little overwhelmed particularly at my boobs. I dress to streamline my shape and he admitted he wasn't expecting them.

Had a very good time, quite intense, he is hot stuff

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backagain5 · 12/01/2011 13:35

Ah, jealous, but really happy for you at the same time, I've even checked up on your thread while at work. Couldn't wait until the end of the day for an update. Brilliant.

How was it? Grin x

MaggieMuggins · 12/01/2011 13:44

Hoorahhhh! :)

justcarrots29 · 12/01/2011 13:49

I do not believe you....I insist on photographic evidence Wink

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