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Just found out im pregnant at 15, what do I do?

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jazminemarie · 14/03/2026 11:35

I just recently found out im pregnant and im 15, i genuinely don’t know what to do im really really scared about everything. I don’t know if I should even keep it. I don’t know if I should tell anyone and if I do how do I tell them? Especially my dad?? I’m really nervous and I feel so stupid and dumb for it even happening. The worst part is I don’t even know who the dad would be… please try not to be judgmental im genuinely really worried.

and yes im expecting to be judged and name called…

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Lemonvalley · 14/03/2026 23:27

No I really wouldn’t “tell one of the boys she is sleeping with”. They aren’t committed relationships, they aren’t mature adults, they haven’t been exclusive. There is no telling how they may handle that with their maturity level and ego involved. They could spread the information around school, it could get out, she could be humiliated or ostracised. She needs to seek the advice of an adult or professional here.

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Absolutely. DO NOT tell any of these boys about this.

IDasIX · 17/03/2026 18:41

namechangeforthisone256 · 14/03/2026 17:15

There is no upside to having a baby at 15, OP. Even people who had their babies very young will tell you that.

Generally I'd agree with that.

However, My son has an old school friend who did exactly that. Took a degree, got her teaching qualification & 20+ years later is a head teacher in a primary school.

But she had the support of parents, one of whom took early retirement, to care for her child while she went to university & completed her education. Not everyone has parents who are willing or able to do that.

That’s someone who had a good outcome despite having a baby at 15. What I meant was there is no positive/benefit to having a baby at 15, and I’m sure that the woman you speak about would tell OP that.

rainbowsandraspberrygin · 17/03/2026 20:54

@jazminemarie how are you doing?

Isabella40 · 22/03/2026 15:25

Have you managed to talk to anyone? Hope you are ok.

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