Hi ladies, I've recently found out I'm pregnant again after 2 losses in a row. I'm very lucky to have a DS and I had another MC before I had him. So 3 losses in total. I'm only 4+4, but got faint positive 11 days ago at 9dpo and it feels like I've been pregnant for aaaages but time is moving so slowly. We've booked an early scan when I'll be 8 weeks exactly so waiting it out until then, and hoping nothing happens in between. I wondered if anyone else is in a similar position and wanted to share this early journey with me. I've decided not to tell anyone this time round, a lot of my close friends are dealing with newborns or their own ivf journeys and I don't want to add any load to anyone. But it feels like a huge load to me so would love to share with someone!
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Hopingrae · 26/02/2024 14:18
@MrsScotland ahh I see! Oh yes, I've heard of the worst girl gang podcast. Seen that recommended lots of times, I really should have a listen!
@LER2023 are you booked in with midwife yet? I know what you mean, I'm booked to see midwife when I'll be 8+5 and we're getting a private scan at 8 weeks exactly, because I said to DH I can't face doing the whole midwife appointment again without knowing if things are ok at that point. This part is so slow isn't it, my scan feels so long away.
Hopingrae · 26/02/2024 17:29
@LER2023 I don't blame you for holding off. I'm sure the midwife will be understanding. I was in 2 minds about putting it off tbh, I just thought it might speed up any referrals to recurrent MC clinic if they knew about it... don't know if that's true or not though! Sometimes people don't find out until they're that far along anyway so I'm sure they're used to it!
Hopingrae · 26/02/2024 20:16
@LER2023 wow, that must have been a shock for your SIL finding out at 21 weeks!
Symptoms wise, I've had niggly crampy feeling for a few days, although that's been better today. Had moments of feeling exhausted, but that could just be toddler related! Otherwise nothing much but probs still too early. My boobs have been a bit tingly, but sounds like yours have been much worse that mine! Poor you. With DS I got hit by the nausea train at 6 weeks. So I'm fine not feeling nauseous at the mo, it's hideous. Ironically with MMC I had nausea immediately and hoped that was a good sign, but it obvs wasn't. So going to try not to read into anything too much if I can.
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