I can't sleep. The election is keeping me awake. I jokingly told DH I would stay up to watch it & it's starting to look like I actually might! Really didn't actually intend to! How are you feeling bring? Got your flights booked for the morning?
You guys both have such huge things to be dealing with right now, I just want to wrap you both in a big blanket & keep you safe until it gets better in a non-stalkery way!
pear try eBay for cheap grow bags. For now though you could try just putting her down in extra layers, but be careful it's not too much! We used swaddle wraps with blankets over the top when they were little but I'm guessing a gassy baby might want to wriggle more than they might allow!
Hope all the 3yos settle down soon. I think it must be a phase - Runt's going through it a bit too. I tell him to do something & just get a flat "no" as a response! Both DC are currently obsessed with killing. Pretty much all their games will involve someone wanting to kill other people. No idea where they've got the idea from but it's clearly something they need to work through, although I'm a bit disturbed that they frequently seem to side with the toy with the murderous tendencies! I'm torn between letting them play through the phase & hoping it'll resolve naturally & having a zero-tolerance policy & coming down hard every time we hear it. DH favours the latter & I'm inclined to go along with it because I can't stand hearing my babies talking about killing as if it's funny but I also can't help but wonder about the psychology behind it. Maybe they've overheard something on the news that's playing on their minds & they need to deal with it in the only way kids know how. If that's the case then us stopping that process could lead to more internalised anxiety & Calf has quite enough of that already! Maybe I'll start a thread about it in parenting but I'm fully aware that lots of parents see it as fine for their DC to play with "guns" etc. We've always discouraged that because we're concerned about society's apathy towards violence but to hear such young children laughing about killing is really disturbing. I was trying to talk Runt through his phobia of dogs & asked him what he thought he should do if a friendly dog came over but he didn't want to play - "kick it so it's dead" said with a big grin. He said it in front of my aunt. Her face was a picture, I cringed. I swear he doesn't hear these sort of things at home, other than from Calf. They don't even watch any TV with violence in - it's all Bing & Trumpton here! I tried introducing them to Brum the other day but had to turn it off because it was upsetting Calf. His play is much more disturbing than anything he'll tolerate watching on TV!
I'm waffling now, I know! Still don't feel at all sleepy. Perhaps I'll go finish Calf's DLA form I've been avoiding because it makes my brain fuzzy - brain-fuzziness always puts me to sleep! Doesn't help that Runt kept me up half the night yesterday after he had a nightmare & came into our bed & just stared at me for the rest of the night. As if that weren't creepy enough I heard really weird noises coming from their room about 1.5 hours ago, it turned out that Calf had woken up & decided to sing in the voice he puts on while pretending his favourite toy is talking - creepy & high pitched! Don't even get me started on "I wasn't talking about killing, it was [toy]. I was telling her to stop." If it wouldn't create epic drama that toy would've been "mis-placed" ages ago! I'm sure it's a bad influence on him! I'm raising serial killers, aren't I?! Too scared to sleep now, I think I might open my eyes to find that toy inches from my face...