https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c33nv8x64mlo
I strongly suggest only reading the first para.
This is a mild mannered researcher, highly educated, appeared to be an animal lover. Featured on programmes with David Attenborough.
In his free time liked to torture animals for sexual kicks.
He says: "Adding that his family was not aware or involved in any way, he wrote: "I will seek long term treatment and... I will find a path towards redemption."
Still blaming others, not taking responsibility for his choice.
This case to me shows how impossible it is to "pick the right man", and what annoying thing that is to say to abused women. And also that these men systematically blame their abnormal sex drive on an "illness" or addiction, rather than facing up to the fact they can control their penises.
I don't know what the answer is. I wish he was never getting out of jail.