I'm so glad you started this thread OP. I thought about it a few times, but was worried I would be hounded off back to the naughty corner (the Feminist board).
It's incredibly frustrating to see how apathetic the government and media are on this issue. Yes, it's very fucking important to woman that we retain our legal protections, language, single sex spaces. No, that is not hateful, nor is it hateful or bigoted to believe in reality.
However a person wishes to dress, or wants to be called is fine by me, I honestly think most people don't actually care these days. But to claim this somehow allows you to change biological sex, and therefore gives you access to women's spaces - hell no! Men cannot become women, we are not simply a feeling in a man's head. The fact that here are male sex offenders in Limerick women's prison, and this is somehow fine and dandy just goes to show how much people are burying their head in the sand.
There is a great quote from Dave Chapelle about this: to what extent should I or anyone else be compelled to participate in your self image.
Self ID law compels us to participate in something that we don't agree with, and that at times actually disadvantages us. And if we complain, we are called unreasonable!
I really hope we can keep this thread going as a place where Irish women can talk/ vent. I know there is the FWR board but it's nice to know I'm not alone, and I'm not going crazy.