But this is a pile of shit that has to be dealt with pragmatically, not with squawking.
I just got off the phone with someone who was trying to convince me of this same thing. ‘It’s what’s needed, get over it’. I politely pointed out that their lives haven’t changed that much this year, and it’s easy to say things like this from a position of privilege, of someone who has undergone minimal change in their lives. If not going on holiday has been one of your biggest sacrifices, you are extremely lucky.
You say you’re sorry for those losing their jobs or unable to see their families. I think you are honestly trying to understand those of us in this situation, but can’t fully grasp the reality of it. I’m assuming you or someone in your household still holds down a job, and that you’ve been able to see some family and friends even from a distance or at the park. Life looks much worse and the need to travel is much stronger for others, like me, who are completely isolated and away from everyone in our support system. I haven’t touched another person in 3 months. I live alone, a flight away from ALL my friends and family. Last time I saw a relative was when I travelled for Christmas - allowed between the two countries involved btw. So yes, going abroad again this year is very important to me. I have paid for tests and isolated as required every time I travelled. I will continue to do so as long as it’s legal where I am.
My sister might be coming to visit next week. I’m currently in a country going through a third wave (we’re not in full lockdown though and international travel was never banned). My neighbour tried to tell me how irresponsible that was yesterday. After telling me how much fun she’s been having throughout the winter with her 3 friends she and husband decided to bubble up with. Which was illegal up until last week. She couldn’t understand why my sister coming to visit me would be beneficial for me, when she decided to adapt the rules to suit herself and still maintained a support network throughout.
Some people just don’t get it. It’s been a year of this. Many of us were stuck somewhere we didn’t want to be. And like someone said on another thread today, no, you shouldn’t plan for a pandemic when you move abroad away from your loved ones. It was never an issue before when I could just go home for the weekend whenever I wanted. Very different situation now.