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Conflict in the Middle East

Pro-Israel - I don't understand

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plsexplaintome · 08/10/2025 09:11

I've NCed for this as MN can be a vicious place lately, this thread may be a bad idea but hoping some genuine people will respond with their perspective.

Obviously there's a lot of nuance, but I don't understand how so many people seem to be pro Israel? My family are Jewish (I'm not as my mother isn't, but my dad's side are) and none of us support what Israel are doing. They say that as Jewish people, they don't want to see their people commit a genocide and push people out of their homes as this is exactly what's been done to Jewish people throughout history. And we don't think it's necessarily antisemitic to be against the actions of a government. (Though clearly some people are being antisemitic under the guise of defending Palestine)

Of course, Hamas has done awful things and I don't mean to say it's okay. But it seems like Palestine is fighting back after decades of oppression and violence committed against them by Israel. It's the actions of a desperate people - it's awful violence, but if it weren't for Israel, there would be no need for violence at all. You can't continually kick a dog and complain when it bites back?

I'm not looking for an argument so may not post again here as I don't want to argue withother opinions - I'm just hoping to hear from other perspectives. A lot of the media and public seem very pro Israel and I just don't understand. I'm not talking about protests here in the UK, as that's a whole other mess that's really muddying the waters and I'm not sure Palestinians would want these people speaking for them. If you are pro-Israel, please explain why as I feel I'm missing something here

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Imtootired · 08/10/2025 15:14

inamarina · 08/10/2025 14:32

Israel is killing civilians and not soldiers because Gaza is not a nation state and doesn’t have a military like a nation state would have

So when Israel is killing Hamas fighters they’re killing civilians, in your opinion?
Speaking of bizarre comments…

What’s their ratio

inamarina · 08/10/2025 15:16

applespeck · 08/10/2025 15:06

And you've been here long enough that you know your claim about Israel not controlling Gaza is rubbish. You couldn't leave without Israeli approval. What you ate was controlled by Israel as ever single thing was checked by Israel.. Even pasta was banned at one point in case it was dangerous. Kids not allowed paper to draw. Chocolate banned. Israel didn't even show Gazans to fish without interference

You do realise that Israel is not the only border neighbour with Gaza?

And the Gazan government taking the opportunity of Israel leaving Gaza to develop itself as a peaceful, productive state so that more trust grew between Israel and Gaza would have been the more constructive approach to take. If that had happened both countries and their citizens would be in a much better position. But for that to have happened, Hamas would have wanted a peaceful state in Gaza. And they did not. They are fundamentalist religious extremists who are partnered with other fundamentalist religious extremists who want the complete destruction of Jews in the ME.

The problem with the narrative of people like you, is that you think, because it suits your narrative, of Palestinians as weak characters with no agency, who only react to Israel but have not active thoughts of their own and make no choices.

The reality is that Hamas have a very clear system of thought and are acting with free choice and full agency to achieve their religious-political Islamist view of the world.

People always mention the blockade in Gaza, but wasn’t it only implemented almost two years after Israel’s withdrawal and after Hamas had been elected?

LeticiaMorales · 08/10/2025 15:18

@Alittlefeedbackwouldbenice if the poor children of Gaza don't have chocolate, or paper to draw on, I wonder why Egypt can't send some across? As you know, they have a large land border with Gaza, and used to rule it.
I'm not being flippant, because I actually have every sympathy with the people of Gaza, and have been shocked and distressed by the horrors unfolding.
However, I think that it's a little more complicated than the Israelis banning pasta, or anything else.

Everexpanding · 08/10/2025 15:19

15 Israelis have been killed by Hamas rockets since October 2023

LeticiaMorales · 08/10/2025 15:20

inamarina · 08/10/2025 15:16

People always mention the blockade in Gaza, but wasn’t it only implemented almost two years after Israel’s withdrawal and after Hamas had been elected?

Yes, I think the timeline was Israeli withdrawal in 2005, and Hamas elected, then a blockade?
Correct me if I'm wrong.

InsectsMatter · 08/10/2025 15:24

rubyslippers · 08/10/2025 09:15

Goady and horrible under the guise of naivety

Interesting how so many of these types claim to be Jewish or have Jewish ancestry.

I’ve never met a Jewish person who did not have a pretty firm handle about what’s going on and my feeling that is these confused alleged Jewish people are bad actors.

Beachtastic · 08/10/2025 15:26

inamarina · 08/10/2025 15:16

People always mention the blockade in Gaza, but wasn’t it only implemented almost two years after Israel’s withdrawal and after Hamas had been elected?

And 7/10 rather grotesquely demonstrated why it was necessary.

Alittlefeedbackwouldbenice · 08/10/2025 15:26

SharonEllis · 08/10/2025 15:14

Children not allowed paper to draw? Don't be silly. No paper in Gaza for 20 years? You can't actually believe that.

You may acknowledge violence on both sides but many do not.

One of the themes of the last few days has been the line that 7 October marks '2 years of the Israeli genocide'. No mention of the 7 October attack on statement after statement, and even the most avid perpetrator of the genocide can't believe it started on 7 October.

I understand why you wish to minimise Israeli deaths. Those 'acts of terrorism' are not abstract. They are innocebt civilians stabbed in the street, or bombed on vehicles. The likelihood of terrorism such as this is precisely why Israelis have to live with extraordinarily high levels of security. 'Terrorism' is about how a society is impacted by the level of threat. Its not just measured by body bags. It is why the travel and various aspects of Palestinian life are controlled. Without those high levels of security and surveillance many many more Israelis would die every year.
Without the iron dome many many more Israelis would die because of rocket attacks.
It is Hamas's choice to put nothing in place to protect its citizens. Its Hams's choice to perpetrate a campsign of terror.

Paper

https://www.un.org/unispal/document/auto-insert-201200

I'm interested though in (a) what you think Gazans version of the iron Dome would be made of, given that chocolate passata and paper were considered too dangerous for the Gazans to possess (b) whether you actually believe Israel would have allowed them to make it, considering they're not allowed to control their own borders, sea or air?

Israeli ban on truckloads of paper set to hit Gaza schools - IRIN/ Non-UN Document - Question of Palestine

ISRAEL-OPT: Ban on truckloads of paper set to hit Gaza schools JERUSALEM, 26 August 2007 (IRIN) - The Israeli ban on deliveries of paper to Gaza is not only threatening to create a shortage of

https://www.un.org/unispal/document/auto-insert-201200/

Everexpanding · 08/10/2025 15:26

A good article re the blockade quote from 2006

”Israel knows how much food is needed. It has been calibrating hunger in Gaza for decades, initially calculating shipments to exert pressure while avoiding starvation.

“The idea is to put the Palestinians on a diet, but not to make them die of hunger,” a senior adviser to the then prime minister, Ehud Olmert, said in 2006. An Israeli court ordered the release of documents showing the details of those macabre sums two years later”

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2025/jul/31/the-mathematics-of-starvation-how-israel-caused-a-famine-in-gaza

Beachtastic · 08/10/2025 15:26

Everexpanding · 08/10/2025 15:19

15 Israelis have been killed by Hamas rockets since October 2023

Do you know about the Iron Dome?

Alittlefeedbackwouldbenice · 08/10/2025 15:27

LeticiaMorales · 08/10/2025 15:18

@Alittlefeedbackwouldbenice if the poor children of Gaza don't have chocolate, or paper to draw on, I wonder why Egypt can't send some across? As you know, they have a large land border with Gaza, and used to rule it.
I'm not being flippant, because I actually have every sympathy with the people of Gaza, and have been shocked and distressed by the horrors unfolding.
However, I think that it's a little more complicated than the Israelis banning pasta, or anything else.

Because Israel imposed the same blockade via things coming in that route. Or more precisely didn't allow the Rafah crossing to be for goods, in general, and what there was had to be checked by Israel.

Everexpanding · 08/10/2025 15:28

Yes only wish America would fund one for Gaza like it does for Israel

Everexpanding · 08/10/2025 15:29

@Beachtastic

Beachtastic · 08/10/2025 15:31

Alittlefeedbackwouldbenice · 08/10/2025 15:26

Paper

https://www.un.org/unispal/document/auto-insert-201200

I'm interested though in (a) what you think Gazans version of the iron Dome would be made of, given that chocolate passata and paper were considered too dangerous for the Gazans to possess (b) whether you actually believe Israel would have allowed them to make it, considering they're not allowed to control their own borders, sea or air?

Ah, that well-know impartial observer, the UN, and its UNRWA scandal.

I'm interested though what you think Gazans version of the iron Dome would be made of, given that chocolate passata and paper were considered too dangerous for the Gazans to possess

I'm afraid you may have to revise your view as them as poverty-stricken and deprived. For decades, $$$$$$$ billions have been given to them in international aid, not to mention sponsorship by the obscene wealth of oil-rich countries such as Qatar.

Despite their lack of chocolate and pasta, the poor dears somehow managed to build this
https://www.reuters.com/graphics/ISRAEL-PALESTINIANS/GAZA-TUNNELS/gkvldmzorvb/

InsectsMatter · 08/10/2025 15:32

PurpleChrayn · 08/10/2025 10:40

I’ll tell you why I am pro-Israel.

In the late 1930s my paternal grandparents got on boats from Salonica in Greece and Ismir in Turkey, escaping Nazi and Muslim persecution, respectively. They landed in Mandatory Palestine and built lives there from nothing. When the State of Israel was founded in 1948 they became citizens. On the other side of the world, my maternal family were not so lucky - except for the branch that had made it to England, they all perished at Auschwitz, including babies and children. Every Jewish family I know has stories like this.

Now there is a state for all Jews, regardless of location and background, can find safety. My family and I are planning to move there as soon as we can, after several antisemitic attacks on us and our young children, and my losing a book deal due to being Jewish.

Israel is much maligned and misunderstood. It is not an apartheid state. Arabs hold jobs in all echelons of society, including the courts and parliament. Step onto any bus and you’ll see people of all colours - Christians and Muslims alongside the Jewish majority. It is a tiny island of democracy and civil rights surrounded by Islamic theocracies where women are chattel and LGBTQ+ people are thrown off buildings or correctively raped.

There is ONE Jewish state in the world. And it just happens to be the country that is most maligned and criticised. Think about that and ask yourself why.

October 7 and its aftermath laid bare what I had always suspected to be the case. Many people will support ANYTHING, however murderous, however far it veers from their values, if it means standing against the world’s only Jewish state.

I recommend the book “The Left’s Jewish Problem”, which gives some good background on how the Palestinian issue gained such a stranglehold on British academia and culture.

Edited

Thank you.

I wish everyone could read your post which explains things from a humane and personal viewpoint.
I found David Baddiel’s book Jews Don’t Count interesting too.

The rise in anti Semitism in our hitherto tolerant country chills my Anglo Saxon blood to the bone.

LeticiaMorales · 08/10/2025 15:32

Alittlefeedbackwouldbenice · 08/10/2025 15:27

Because Israel imposed the same blockade via things coming in that route. Or more precisely didn't allow the Rafah crossing to be for goods, in general, and what there was had to be checked by Israel.

Yes, I know, but why didn't Egypt negotiate with Israel to have goods sent in, checked at the Rafah Gate?
I suspect too difficult for all involved, and I know the Egyptians want to keep the Palestinians at arms' length, so to speak

Beachtastic · 08/10/2025 15:34

Everexpanding · 08/10/2025 15:28

Yes only wish America would fund one for Gaza like it does for Israel

Why should America fund it? Hamas could easily have afforded it. Do you have any idea how rich they are? They've just spent all the $$$$$ on efforts to destroy Israel. Because they are right-wing fundamentalist Islamic terrorists.

inamarina · 08/10/2025 15:36

Imtootired · 08/10/2025 15:14

What’s their ratio

You weren’t talking about ratios in your pp though, you said “Israel is killing civilians and not soldiers because Gaza is not a nation state and doesn’t have a military like a nation state would have”, so it sounded like since there’s no military in Gaza everyone is a civilian.
As for the ratio, it doesn’t help that the Gaza Ministry of Health isn’t distinguishing between combatant and civilian deaths.
But why on earth would Israel target only civilians and not Hamas?

applespeck · 08/10/2025 15:37

Everexpanding · 08/10/2025 15:19

15 Israelis have been killed by Hamas rockets since October 2023

Not quite sure what your point it here, but if you are trying to say only 15 Israelis have been killed against the higher death toll in Gaza, then you can only make this case if you ignore the actions of Hamas over that time.

Within a year of October 7th 2023, 27000 rockets had been fired into Israel. The low death roll from that is because Israel has invested in the defence of its citizens through the Iron Dome. Its not because Hamas have not tried to kill tens of thousands of Israelis. They'd be delighted to slaughter all of them.

Hamas, on the other hand, has invested in war with Israel at the expense of its citizens. Not even expense, it is very clearly for anyone who has eyes to see, that Hamas is deliberately using the deaths of its citizens in its war propaganda. They have not invested in defences for their citizens. The tunnels they built in preparation for their planned war with Israel that they provoked on Oct 7th, could have been used to defend their citizens, and lead to a much, much lower death toll but they didn't, and don't to this day, want to do that. That would be counter to their aims.

So no, this is not a case of poor, weak victim Hamas being nice and hardly killing any Jews, whereas nasty Israel is killing loads of Gazans. Its a story of genuinely genocidal Hamas wanting to murder as many Jews as it can and to sacrifice its own citizens to do so.

inamarina · 08/10/2025 15:40

Everexpanding · 08/10/2025 15:19

15 Israelis have been killed by Hamas rockets since October 2023

Israel protects their civilians, Hamas don’t.

applespeck · 08/10/2025 15:44

Alittlefeedbackwouldbenice · 08/10/2025 15:27

Because Israel imposed the same blockade via things coming in that route. Or more precisely didn't allow the Rafah crossing to be for goods, in general, and what there was had to be checked by Israel.

And yet somehow, despite not being able to get basics like chocolate and paper, according to you, Hamas managed to get into Gaza all the arms and rockets and materials to build 450 miles of tunnels. Looks like Hamas was not bothered about its citizens having paper or chocolate either then 🙄.

And as I said upthread, Hamas had a choice to build up a peaceful state and build trust and relationships with Israel, and it chose instead to do the opposite and continue conflict. At the cost not only of Israeli citizens, but also of its own.

Imtootired · 08/10/2025 15:44

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Dragonasaurus · 08/10/2025 15:45

It also tends to get lost that (I understand) life in Gaza, and between Gaza and Israel was, in 2023, improving. Many people from Gaza were working in Israel, getting medical care in Israel etc. Things looked set to get better. Saudi was going to recognise Israel and work on the 2 state solution looked possible.

This is precisely why Hamas attacked

vivainsomnia · 08/10/2025 15:47

What is concerned i g OP is that you've acknowledged you're very limited understanding of the politico-religious history of the region yet call/called yourself pro one side abd then another. Why? Two years ago, my understanding was also very limited. I have spent hours and hours reading 100s of documents, books, watching documentaries and even watching films. I consider myself now quite knowledgeable although still nowhere as knowledgeable as some posters, and I still feel it is not enough to be in a position to believe I one side over the other. The more I read and the more I can see how there is no right or wrong, just a successions of events that have just made relations worse every decades.