No, they are not! Or, if they are, they are so terrifyingly incompetent that they should be immediately disarmed and put under UN supervision until tangible improvement can be demonstrated!
I went ahead and crunched a few numbers ... because that happens to be what - among other things - I do for a living!
Here they are! General conclusion:
- Even if you are being generous to Israel (a.k.a. "assuming a generally "lower end of the claims and slightly rounded up figure for "civilian deaths", you end up at at figure of ~64% of all 7 October fatalities being civilian.
- Even if you end up being "brutal" towards Palestinians - assuming that a) 10% of all women and children killed were, in fact, combattants - and some 80% of all men killed were, too - you[ll still end up with a ~67% civilian casualty rate.
- Obviously, if you adjust your assumptions (e.g. adjusting for the arguably underestimated Palestinian death toll - which does not include either those still buried under the rubble or "non-immediate" deaths such as those resulting from injury or - even more indirectly - from situations such as "diabetic - technically died of diabetes (but: only due to the inability to access medication) the proportions will shift. I am not even going to attempt this exercise! This is not my job!
- Once more, in the spirit of being "generous to Israel" I have completely disregarded dead soldiers - proportionally, those would shift the "civilian death toll" down.
- I have also completely ignored the West Bank.
Suffice to say ... even taking very generous assumptions, the civilian deaths on 7 October are proportionally about as significant than those of Gazans - probably more (but, again, conservative estimates taken on purpose).
See rough calculation below ...
... and, for the record, no, this is not meant to be some "definitive calculation". It is a "rough model" - the sort of thing I would construct at work in order to have a plausible case to waste "expert hours" on in order to refine further.
Now, do you condemn the IDF, who are, literally, plausibly "worse than Hamas" in terms of "doing their best" not to harm civilians?