TTC after Miscarriage part 4

[Ella31]

Starting thread number 4, can you believe it? Congrats to everyone who has been lucky the last few threads and for those who have had recent losses again or new, keep strong, you are amazing. To those still trying, it will happen, myself included there and we will support each other.

I'll just include a foreward for anyone new who joins us, this is a supportive group for anyone who has had a loss, no matter how early or late. Everyone here has experieced the upset and understands.

Ive gone through the list and more than likely left people out so add anyone you think I've forgotten.

@ToeBeans24

@DonnaWhat
@Onthedouble123
@Lovedatforme

@emmatcc1
@ncl31
@MisssMarion
@Loz365
@Tallgirl91
@Figtree11
@ThelastRolo20
@mountainlass
@CadoAvo

@Joleyjojo

@Jellyfish2

@B1989
@rosyposy26

@RaisingCornishWildlings
@Rockyslife
@sarahk89

Thank you. I am at the GPS tomorrow having FSH / LH bloods done etc.
If it’s still really quite bad I will mention it.
your right it is a minefield one min I’m feeling okish and the next just really down x

@Ella31 oh and it's easy at home which I've always used.

It's so normal what you are feeling. I'm nearly 7 months since losing my twin sons and I'm still not right. Just keep talking, it's so important.

Keep testing. I thought I was ovulating earlier this month and i didn't. So keep going for it.

Evening Ladies, I'm going to pick your brains with TMI (Sorry)

I'm now 1dpo according to premom and OPK surge was 2 days ago.

Just been toilet and when I wiped I've got what I presume is ovulation spotting? If it is, I've never had it before. It's mucus texture not blood or discharge texture. Has anyone had this before? Sick of looking on Google. I know it's nothing to worry about, just never had it. Does it mean ovulation has occurred? Is that all the spotting is? TIA (pic is the spotting)

Thank you yes I am, had a few tears this morning but I hadn’t truly let myself believe it to be honest

@Joleyjojo thank you and I'm sorry it's so tough for you right now ❤️ having to deal with both the physical and emotional side of loss is so bloody hard and unless you've been through it I don't think you can ever really understand ❤️

If you can't face work then don't go in for a bit, it's so important to put yourself first. How's the bleeding going? X

@ThelastRolo20 thats amazing news, fingers crossed it continue to go well

@Ella31 thats great news about the testing etc….

@ThelastRolo20 great news on the scan! Pleased that they're looking after you and having you back in a couple of weeks too.

@Ella31 that sounds really positive. Knowledge is power- either to confirm it's likely a mental block and you can work on that with the reassurance physical tests are fine; or else you can address and fix whatever results show if there is an issue somewhere.

@Tallgirl91 that's exciting! Congratulations! Fingers crossed it's a sticky one! Will you keep testing daily or wait a few days?

I am off until Tuesday I’m hoping to be a bit more myself and maybe work is what I need. It’s the bursting into tears randomly.

the bleeding feels like it’s slowed down a bit. My normal periods are pretty light for about 3 days, I’m hoping this bleed won’t be prolonged xxx

@Joleyjojo I hope things have calmed down physically for you. Look after yourself and take the time you need to recover emotionally. It's so hard but we all understand what you're going through. Xx

Never had it but I'd say ovulation spotting, could also just be you recovering from the chemical

Hey ladies - I have brown blood when I wiped this morning but I'm only 8DPO and CD24! My cycles used to be 25 days before my miscarriages, and then they went all over the place again... however, I was not expecting my period this early? What is happening to me?

@fingerscrossedmummaMorning, have you been tracking your cycles? How long ago was your last 25 say cycle? Could it be that you're regulating back to 25 days? X

That is definitely possible, but I guess I would have expected ovulation to be earlier then as well as I usually ovulate CD 12 and period comes around 12/13 DPO. I've been tracking cycles since September and since then I've had two unsuccessful pregnancies so I no longer really trust the data as my cycles are all over the place!

I'm really sorry @Ncl31 .

After somewhere in the region of 20 flashing smiley days on Clearblue, 30 days after D&C, I got my solid smiley today. In the cycle we conceived, I had solid smiley, then 3 days later, another solid smiley and positive Easy@Home, I think I tend to have a double LH peak as had same 3ish years ago with my daughter. So hopefully finally on the way to ovulation.

Cycle we conceived I had bleeding 10dpo, which turned into a period (no idea how pregnancy continued after that), so assuming I do go on to ovulate, I may still have a short luteal phase. It would be my second ovulation after breastfeeding, which can shorten luteal phase, but it's also now been 3 months since I stopped, but obvs had a miscarriage in that time, which can also shorten luteal phase... basically... who knows?!?! First thing to worry about is if ill oviulate soon and making sure we dtd. We'll give it a shot, anyway.

@Onthedouble123 thank you ❤️

@Ella31 are you testing today? X

8dpo bfn. Not holding out much hope really.

Are you taking vitamins or anything?

I am taking vitamins (impryl) but actually not sure if they do anything or affect things? Do you know?

It's still so early but I can understand the disappointment ❤️❤️

Hey ladies! Thanks for the new thread.

Bit of an update from me, had the appointment at recurrent miscarriage clinic. Essentially just discussed my blood results - lupus negative but my clotting and anticardolipin antibodies are abnormal so they want to repeat them, but you have to wait 12 weeks (!?!) and then another 2 weeks for the results so that won't be until August 😌 and we shouldn't be TTC until we get the results...

Had a 3D ultrasound today as they wanted to repeat my baseline off any medication. Confirmed I still have PCOS and now also probable adenomyosis (which I'm not that shocked about, my periods are always really heavy and painful). They also mentioned that my uterus is slightly heart shaped but not to a significant degree that it should be causes issues. Now googling everything to work out what this new info means but anyone else had similar diagnoses?!

Yes. I used it for the first time 3 years ago and got pregnant with dd the first month of trying. I used it again for baby#2 and got pregnant the second month but that ended in a MMC. I'm now on cycle#3 since the MMC and hopefully this will be it! Let me know if you have any questions.

I hope it's too early

I've only ever got squinters on day 10 🥰 I know you got one at 8DPO with your twins but they would have doubled your HCG production! Only 18% of pregnant women get a positive at 8DPO xx